Despise my sister

Your aware we can tell your the thread starter right?

How so? Our cultures are completely different when it comes to family values and I'm not going to apologise for that. I have not once bashed western culture.

I stand by that. You do not understand the culture surrounding our families. Informing your parents of what time you are coming home is a huge deal. Now if I did want to bash western values, I would have placed emphasis on the drinking and working in a pub. I didn't because I am accepting of that so really dont get your pount

No, we are all people at the end to the day, and there will be a vast difference in how things work in different families, both Asian and white (need I emphasise that "white" is not one homogenous group and that there are people from very different backgrounds who happen to be white - including muslims?). You haven't bashed wested culture but you have made generalisations, which just comes across as a bit narrow-minded.

Ohhh I apoligize. I thought you were trying to act as if you were another person.

Right. Enjoy being pedantic. I think you can derive exactly what I meant. To clarify, a British family will not have the same family structure as a first generation Pakistani family. Argue with the wall if you think differently.

I gather you live with your sister and mum? How is that different to a single parent English household?

Sorry, family values as opposed to structure.

Your sister and mother are the only normal ones there! You are paranoid and make your sister feel uncomfortable, no wonder she tries to avoid you by staying out late.

are you being serious?? she can do what she wants idc. im the one who has to put up with my mum staying up late at night worrying and i used this thread to vent. That is genuinely it.

Sorry, family values as opposed to structure.

yeah geez these people think they can come to the UK and judge people for living life like a normal person here!

shes just being judgemental like a lot of muslims are to people that live regular lives in the UK

Long story short, i come from a traditional pakistani family. My mum raised us alone in an inner city area.

My sister is younger than me (22) and she recently got a job in a pub. She secretly drinks, dresses not very islamically and takes weed. Her shift's finish at 10pm but she does not come home until half 1 in the morning and claims she is talking to her co workers.

My mum is a push over. She thinks my sister is working in a restaurant. I had an argument with my sister recently and told her to get a grip but her response was she's an adult and can do whatever the hell she wants.

I'm sick and tired of her crap. My mum won't sleep until she gets back home because she's worried and I'm just so angry. Who tf spends 3 hours socialising after there shift???? I hate her so much for the stress she causes this family

I think TSR isn't the best place to vent. You will never understand our culture.

Not once is stoning mentioned in the Qur’an and as for the driving that’s a rule Saudi Arabia made. Just because it’s an Islamic country doesn’t mean everything they do is what Islam says

Sorry, family values as opposed to structure.

Long story short, i come from a traditional pakistani family. My mum raised us alone in an inner city area.

My sister is younger than me (22) and she recently got a job in a pub. She secretly drinks, dresses not very islamically and takes weed. Her shift's finish at 10pm but she does not come home until half 1 in the morning and claims she is talking to her co workers.

My mum is a push over. She thinks my sister is working in a restaurant. I had an argument with my sister recently and told her to get a grip but her response was she's an adult and can do whatever the hell she wants.

I'm sick and tired of her crap. My mum won't sleep until she gets back home because she's worried and I'm just so angry. Who tf spends 3 hours socialising after there shift???? I hate her so much for the stress she causes this family

I mean, you live in the UK - you have to accept that it is totally normal for your sister to be influenced by and want to be part of that culture. If you chose to be more conservative and stick to traditional Pakistani values, that's fine, but it doesn't mean your sister has to.

Sure, we don't understand. Respecting parents and parents doing the best for their children is exclusive to your culture

are you being serious?? she can do what she wants idc. im the one who has to put up with my mum staying up late at night worrying and i used this thread to vent. That is genuinely it.