Relationships

I'm 15 and I am not a virgin however, there is this really sweet guy who I like but he's a virgin. I want to sleep with him but I don't know how to bring it up as we aren't dating and he is too shy to actually suggest anything. What should I do?
BTW without sounding big headed it is pretty obvious he has feelings for me too but is too shy to do anything

If you are actually wanting a romantic relationship, ask him out and don't just use him.

If you are only wanting him to satisfy your lust, then leave the poor boy alone

I agree

I'm 15 and I am not a virgin however, there is this really sweet guy who I like but he's a virgin. I want to sleep with him but I don't know how to bring it up as we aren't dating and he is too shy to actually suggest anything. What should I do?
BTW without sounding big headed it is pretty obvious he has feelings for me too but is too shy to do anything

You’re 15 so I’m not going to encourage you to do anything - you’re underage.

If you want a relationship with this boy, ask him out. Don’t use him for sex, that’s disgusting.

Pursue a relationship with him properly or leave him alone. It’s unfair of you to use him.

Found it very jarring that a bear of all things is advocating against paedophilia.

But otherwise, I agree completely. This board shouldn't even host topics such as this, the parties involved are too young.

I’m not sure what you mean?

I’m just seeing that you don’t really care but you just want to do “it” with him.

Umm don’t pursue it because he’s probs not ready

Found it very jarring that a bear of all things is advocating against paedophilia.

But otherwise, I agree completely. This board shouldn't even host topics such as this, the parties involved are too young.

How is that pedophilia though??

Well, if "I" as an adult, or any other parties within this thread who are legal adults condone a 15 year old to pursue sexual relations with another minor, more so when the guy involved has shown no interest in the act. Then that could certainly be viewed as paedophilia, or at the very least a paedophilic act. Or maybe my understanding of this topic is incorrect? Is it hebephilia? Regardless, it's wrong and this topic shouldn't belong here. Even in light of a lack of prosecution in the UK for similarly aged teens engaging in sexual acts, an adult shouldn't be pushing a minor to engage in said act.