Why was she so upset that I ghosted her.

I don’t care what you think, I loved… I really did. I ghosted her because I didn’t think she felt the same, I felt like I was wasting my time and that ghosting wouldn’t help me move on.

So I found that she was very hurt by it, has struggled with it for years, can’t trust anyone anymore, and has had issues in her relationships.

Wtf is going on???

well, she liked you and you ghosted her

I don’t care what you think, I loved… I really did. I ghosted her because I didn’t think she felt the same, I felt like I was wasting my time and that ghosting wouldn’t help me move on.

So I found that she was very hurt by it, has struggled with it for years, can’t trust anyone anymore, and has had issues in her relationships.

Wtf is going on???

Is this a troll? Obviously ghosting is very hurtful and should be avoided in nearly all circumstances.

I don’t care what you think, I loved… I really did. I ghosted her because I didn’t think she felt the same, I felt like I was wasting my time and that ghosting wouldn’t help me move on.

So I found that she was very hurt by it, has struggled with it for years, can’t trust anyone anymore, and has had issues in her relationships.

Wtf is going on???

When you are unsure whats happening, have trust issues, trying to stop yourself from getting hurt emotionally and lowkey angry/upset that they don't feel the same, maybe ghosting (walking away) and trying to forget is an option...

One of the cons of dating people who struggle to express their emotions.

I don’t care what you think, I loved… I really did. I ghosted her because I didn’t think she felt the same, I felt like I was wasting my time and that ghosting wouldn’t help me move on.

So I found that she was very hurt by it, has struggled with it for years, can’t trust anyone anymore, and has had issues in her relationships.

Wtf is going on???

Sadly, due to their upbringing, I have learnt some people have trouble expressing their emotions. As much as it sucks, it's something we have to live with.

Did you ask for reassurance? Did you guys meet up? Maybe ask how she is feeling about you? Communication could have fixed this issue if you loved her lots, imo.

I admit, I'm not the best at expressing my feelings - I've never been. In this case, I felt extremely vulnerable.

When we first met, we were both in a relationship... I didn't cheat on my then GF, but we had a women when I rested my hed on her stomach as she stood in front of me, and she stroked my hair... and it was plain to see something was there.

For 6 years, I only wanted wanted her.

Yes we did meetup several times... the last was when she invited me over to her city... all her friends knew me, and we were pretty much the centre of attention at this party. Her best friend even told me that I had no idea how much she would talk about me.

I didn't cheat on my then GF, but we had a women when I rested my hed on her stomach as she stood in front of me, and she stroked my hair... and it was plain to see something was there.

so why did you think she didn't like you if she talks about you a lot?

Everyone expresses emotions, but it's important to understand how she would feel when you take this option. It's difficult to talk about tough things (like break-ups, relationship issues) but that's just life in general. Ghosting is not the right option - it's a cowards way out.

I don't know anymore, I really don't...

Did you think about how it would effect her, before actually doing it? You could have asked her first? I don't entirely believe what you're saying here.

Majority of times, people ghost because it is the easier/more convenient option for themselves. It avoids uncomfortable conversations with the other person, or having to explain yourself to them and why you don't feel the same way.

And this applies to women too. I don't buy it that it's because they think the man will automatically try to rape them if they reject him. That will be the case in some instances, most not, and certainly doesn't apply over text message due to obvious practical difficulties of raping someone over the phone.

my brain can't process this

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