(Original post by Sam Walters)
This is due to a creation of an emotional spike. This may have been created due to a number of things. Your personality. Your appearance. The way you acted. Yada yada.
Its human nature to chase what spikes our emotions positively. Think about abusive relationships that go on for ages. Love is followed by abuse, physical or emotional then the cycle repeats. This results in a craving on the victim for the love that is shown.
Ultimately id be looking at myself if it was I in your position.
Fair enough, but I just don't understand why that would cause even the most random people to message for seemingly no reason when, to me at least, it would be obvious
I can understand your last point as I've been there myself, but I don't think there's the same level of attachment or dependency
(Original post by Gouki)
I'm just giving OP some career advice as clearly she must be an attractive lady to garner this much attention
Haha, older rich guys are actually some of the worst for this surprisingly
(Original post by Zenarthra)
The simplest conclusion i could give you is to go out of your comfort zone, confront them tell them to stop messaging you its really annoying.
BUT, on the other hand find out why he thinks UKIP is annoying, what is his views on UKIP?
Ask him why he thinks people hate him?
That was you can learn more about this type of person.
Wagwarn, handled that lika boss
Oh no, he's UKIP/whatever or other, but he winds me up with it because I don't like it as well as others. I know enough about him, but he is an extremely abrasive person. I've told him to get counseling but meh.