Friend tried touching me whilst I was asleep Watch

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maybe you just looked good in the dark?
Your sig is so cuuuuute!!! :pika:
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The fact that you didn't immediately beat him up makes me think you're gay.
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(Original post by Joe Weavurrr)
maybe you just looked good in the dark?
agree :ymca:

or... well he was probably steaming, and didnt realise it was you adn thought you were a girl i wouldnt take it personally and just forget about it

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Tbh, I don't think not doing anything means that OP is gay. It's easy to say that you would do this or that when you are not in the situation, but what you actually end up doing maybe completely different. Yes, He should have stopped him or whatever but OP probably thought that him changing positions would stop his mate touching him up. Its amazing that he didn't .. it sounds like the best friend is probably gay or bisexual.
As to what to do about the situation, confronting him is an idea but by not confronting him then and there you have already made your decision not to confront imo. If you are just careful around him you can avoid this situation in future, and if he does or tries anything again, you should definitely confront him.
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CHOP IT OFF!!!!!!
in all seriousness, you should tell your friend.
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I'm more worried about the people that say this is normal :lolwut:
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and why is the thread title 'tried'? he blatantly not only tried this BUT succeeded.
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Wtf you just lay there letting him do it? I'm mildly amused at the idea of you waking up as he was doing it though and just saying "that woke me up" or something like that. But seriously, you can't not say anything. If you're genuinely not a troll, there's no way he can get away with just doing something like that, even if he thinks you were asleep. He's clearly got issues. And if he's slept with a lot of girls and not gay but wants to experiment sexually, why can't he do it with someone who's actually willing and awake, ffs?

It's just not on. Some people are so inconsiderate.
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http://www.slapyo.com/wp-content/gay_asians.jpg

oh, I should have edited my first post. oh well
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Your sig is so cuuuuute!!! :pika:
I wana play with his cheeks so baaaaad. They look all smushy
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WTF????? He was touching you and having a **** and you didn't do anything??? You must be gay like him.
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If this is true I can't believe you just let him do it. If I woke up to one of my friends touching my up in my sleep I'd be like "WTF ARE YOU DOING??!!!!!!111!!11!!"
This. This. This!
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There have been several threads like this recently, featuring night-time touchy-feely.... Are they giving people ideas?
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dont lie, did u enjoy it, did he *** all over ya??
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This has to be a troll, cmon I would of pushed him out of bed!!!

Also two guys sleeping in one bed with just boxers on? You either were both ****** off your faces, extremely close (yeah right) or just gay?
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:troll: :troll:

THIS IS A TROLL, I am sorry but if you were straight you would have told your friend to ******* wake up you are trying to touch my ******* PENIS!
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This doesn't sound very legal o_O
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Please keep anon or delete.

Ok first off this is not a troll, I am being completely serious. Last week I was at a party and lots of people stayed over so there were little places to sleep, so I ended up sharing a bed with one of my mates (both guys). I was asleep and starting regaining my consciousness to him touching my penis over my boxers. As you can imagine I just had no idea what to do, I started to realise what was going on and I didn't say anything as this would no doubt have ended our friendship, not to mention being awkward as anything, so I just turned over to face the other way hoping he would stop. But then he started to feel my arse and I'm pretty sure he started touching me with his penis. I was just too baffled and shocked to do anything, maybe I should have done but it would have been way too awkward. Everytime he started touching me I just moved position, had to stay in the most uncomfortable position ever for ages. He then proceeded to masturbate over me, all the time me having to pretend I was asleep. What the hell is one meant to do in this situation? Does this mean he is gay? It would surprise me as he has slept with a lot of girls, maybe he just enjoyed the sexual thrill of touching a sleeping person? :/

I highly doubt this has ever happened to anyone, but does anyone have any advice?

Thanks
Rape happened.

if not, it will.












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Sounds really awkward! I'd just try not to let yourself get into that situation around him again! lol
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:lol:

To those who encourage the OP to sought sexual harassment/abuse/rape charges agaisnt the individual in question, I must warn you that it will be very difficult to prove beyond reasonable doubt (almost impossible).
As we all know, the OP specifically said that he pretended to be asleep and did NOTHING to indicate his disapproval of the actions that followed. This will obviously be interpreted as valid consent, rape is non-consensual and the disapproval of one over another needs to be beyond reasonable doubt to satisfy a court/legal proceeding.

The person in question could therefore argue that the silence was interpreted as consent, because no visible sign/force was made to determine disapproval.

I'm sure other law students will add to this as well. Quite frankly, from a legal perspective, you have no legs to stand on to sought legal action.
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