Just can't pull

You just have to chill out not over think things and perhaps be prepared to take yourself out of your comfort zone somewhat.

I have the problem that i am pretty shy, and often freeze up when talking to women. Why? I don't know, they are just people. Some people i know think i am gay/asexual because i am so shy. I don't let it get me down though as i know it is me that is the problem, not the world.



Do you want just casual sex or do you want to find someone special?

See profile.

Be more flirty. Remember if you act like they want you or at least think they want you, you're more likely to induce it. You need to make them think they'd be lucky to be with you rather than take it for granted.

Your not even ugly. And you had a hard time finding a girl, jesus how did you end up in my situation before?

This thread is 'pull'. Is pull what you want or is it a serious relationship what you are after.

This thread is 'pull'. Is pull what you want or is it a serious relationship what you are after.

Either. Serious relationship preferably.

I think your problem could be you are trying to be too much of a gent, perhaps make it more obvious, if you can, that you are interested.

Ok, what you consider your main stumbling block to be?

For example, mine would be that i don't talk to/meet enough women in the course of my daily life.

Oh I'd also like to the point out, it could be down to luck. Don't underestimate the fortune of meeting the right person at the right time. At one point I kept attracting people in relationships but obviously I don't advocate cheating so left it.

Even they are hard work mate, the lower standard chicks. Thats the tragedy of it all.

Be prepared for rejection. That is the next stage i suppose. You have to be confident and positive.