Can you attact women with a serious, kinda surly and dry personality?

definitely just about to say "ever read pride and prejudice?"

I'm living proof that you can attract women even when you're a complete jackass.

Dark, dry humour is the best though don't change that! maybe be a less reserved and more laid back, not so serious...but keep the dark sense of humour. I'm sure that'll get you some pie in the night times

You sound hot
Small talk is a complete ******* waste of time, I hate it, there's bound to be other women who feel the same.

So showing off as much of your personality equates to how interesting someone is? Just because someone is loud doesn't mean they are great company.

Jack Dee.Gotta love his attitude:" if you dont find me funny don't whine just leave ". Michael's attitude: " if you dont like me why dont you likeme ? Please like me!"

Why do women love the jackasses but never the nice guys?

Just depends...who would you rather sleep with based on personality: Jack Dee or Michael McIntyre?

Why do women love the jackasses but never the nice guys?

What a ridiculous question.

Michael McIntyre would have that ridiculous grin during sex. And he would be like POW and then you will be all let down because of all the hype about him. When it turns out he isn't that good.

Jack Dee on the other hand will not have a ridiculous grin during sex. But then he might write about it in his frankly awful sitcom... But who cares your sex act just hit the BBC.

enough said

Nice guys are not nice, they are boring and needy.

Well there's 'ways' to avoid looking at any kind of grin/grimace during sex so that's not an issue. I have a feeling Jack Dee would get bored and give up halfway through, whereas Michael would get overexcited and come quickly... reckon I'll stick to Rhod Gilbert.

Nah Jack Dee maybe boring but he is a determined son of ... Seriously he's trying to push Lead Balloon for a 4th series... He won't give up.

Rhod Gilbert?! HE SHOUTS THE WHOLE TIME. and he will probably comentate it the whole episode. But i suppose you would get discounts on holidays to Wales.

Not much use, what with living in wales and all
I'm really stumped for eligible comedians now

Russell Howard

Well my problem isnt talking and maintaining a conversation with girls its that I dont like small talk and will initiate and maintain a good solid conversation only when a good opportunity- topic- arises. Small talk is a necessity on meeting someone for the first time . I accept it and practise it regularly in such a scernario but three months into Uni it has become tiresome.

I am quite a serious guy with a dry and black sense of humour. The obvious question is: " why dont you just be happy and smiley and actively go out there talking about junk 90 percent of the time." Thats the problem its pretending. I however do not want to change my personality completely just to encage in more conversations that I will find boring.

Point of post: Would women avoid a male who is serious,reserved and has a dry /dark sense of humour?

Yes I know that not all women are the same.