housemate called me the 'house slut'...

like u said...he was drunk
i doubt he really meant it
n ye obv u gna b upset if some1 calls u a slut, but u dont really sound lyk one
not sure what u'll achieve by bringing it up

you should feel proud

that's a compliment in today's society

guys aim to be "pimps", girls aim at being "bitches"

you know what i'm saying

really?

anon please.

so basically, as title says...i overheard my housemate this evening talking to his friend and he referred to me as the 'house slut' (he was a bit drunk at the time). possibly because everyone in my house is in a relationship with either one another/someone else, and i'm single. i'm in my second year at uni and before i started first year i broke off a long term relationship so had a couple of flings/one night affairs to get over it, nothing out of the ordinary for a fresher- i've heard people do much worse! and i haven't got with anyone in aages- literally like 4 months...

i'm pretty shaken up/angry about this...am i right to be this upset? should i tell him i overheard him and potentially make things awkward for the rest of the year, or just keep quiet and...i don't know. i'm just really angry.

He probably didn't mean it offensively especially if he was drunk, seriously honey in my first year i had a few one night stand in the first few weeks then got with a long term boyfriend which as you said is nothing out of the ordinary and i was a stilll known as the house slut for a while, but that may have been because all but two (including me) in my house where a bit frigid. There is nothing wrong with having fun and having a bit of casual sex now and then, if you're known as the house slut who cares.

exactly...the thing is, i haven't even been having casual sex lately! so it feels a bit below the belt. and he's not exactly my favourite person in the world, and he's not really much of a 'joker' either (even when he's drunk, he's too shy) the friend he was talking to has never met me so i don't know...i feel like i'm overreacting but still - harsh!