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    Long story short. A girl has recently started work for about 3 months now.

    This girl does get on with me, and I must admit I fancy her.

    At work she is playful sometimes (play fighting, etc), and other times she tends to ignore me.

    Last night after work she invited me over to her place for a cup of tea. Being the gentleman that I am I accepted.

    When we got to her place, she was doing things that I wouldnt expect her to do when people are around. e.g:

    she started spraying a muscle ache spray on her arms, this was slightly awkward for me as I was just staring for about a minute.

    then she rang 2 different friends of hers and had about 5 minute conversations with each.

    once she made the tea, she was fine and we had a 20-30 minute chat about life, etc.

    I really dont know where I stand with this girl to be honest.

    How should I approach her, and does this girl like me or what?
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    Make a move, ask her if she wants to go for a drink.
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    Sounds like when you'd just have a friend over
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    (Original post by PapaShmurff)
    Sounds like when you'd just have a friend over
    Better to regret something you have done than something you haven't though.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Long story short. A girl has recently started work for about 3 months now.

    This girl does get on with me, and I must admit I fancy her.

    At work she is playful sometimes (play fighting, etc), and other times she tends to ignore me.

    Last night after work she invited me over to her place for a cup of tea. Being the gentleman that I am I accepted.

    When we got to her place, she was doing things that I wouldnt expect her to do when people are around. e.g:

    she started spraying a muscle ache spray on her arms, this was slightly awkward for me as I was just staring for about a minute.

    then she rang 2 different friends of hers and had about 5 minute conversations with each.

    once she made the tea, she was fine and we had a 20-30 minute chat about life, etc.

    I really dont know where I stand with this girl to be honest.

    How should I approach her, and does this girl like me or what?
    Look at her in the eyes. Look hard. Look dominant. Make her silent.

    Look at her lips. She knows you're going in for a smooch.

    Approach. Start to come close enough that you are pecking her lips.

    Move back. Tell her she's got work to do if she wants more from you.

    Now YOU'RE the asset. Right now, it looks she's your boss.
 
 
 
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