How to Act - question for the guys!

Also, dont be in a huge group of girls if you would like guys to approach you - since the only guys who wont be intimidated by your volume of friends will be up their own arses so far they can see light at the end of the tunnel...

lol, what a stupid comment, don't be bitter that you don't have the confidence some do.

the easiest way to meet new guys is to talk to them at the bar - that way you can approach him and not make it obvious your coming onto him - therefore he wont think your throwing yourself at him.
Just be friendly and chatty, and if your at a relatively quiet bar stay there and talk with him for a while, and then suggest you get a table - dancing isn't a good suggestion as if you want to get to know someone its less talking and its also hinting at something sexual.
In a busy club its slightly more difficult - obviously in this environment dragging someone to the dancefloor is an easier way to get to know someone, as its difficult to find, or persuade, someone into a quiet corner for a natter - but in this respect it will be harder to meet a nice guy rather than a good looking one. The best method for a friendly encounter would be to get him to join your friends with you for a dance - but make sure he understands who he's dancing with ofcourse - it may perhaps be more constructive if your friends join you later as this will dissuade him from attempting to pull you when the night begins to wind down, whereas the opposite would almost certainly have this effect. Also, obviously you can do a little chat and exchange of numbers once the music has stopped - but be prompt to ask otherwise his mates will be dragging him away and vice-versa.
Also, dont be in a huge group of girls if you would like guys to approach you - since the only guys who wont be intimidated by your volume of friends will be up their own arses so far they can see light at the end of the tunnel...

personally though a quotation of that signature would be enough to get me on side

lol, what a stupid comment, don't be bitter that you don't have the confidence some do.

yes ok, ill go out with you.

Personaly I would grately appreciate it if a girl was very forward with me, as I find it impossible to reveal my feelings to them, and just a little nudge first by the girl would be a help.

But this is probably just because, in my case, she didn't like me.

ok so id have to walk past you and hit into you

right so a girl is out in a club or a bar with her mates having a good time.
she single, interested in finding someone, not necessarily pulling. just a chat and an exchange of numbers.
how is she supposed to act??
if you over do it and go up to guys and basically throw urself at them they think your easy, and if you give them complete evils they dont even bother.
whats the ideal way guys would like us to act for them to come up to us?

make sence? i hope so!

the easiest way to meet new guys is to talk to them at the bar

I agree with the bar talking; it's easy to bring up a conversation topic with stuff going on, it's a bit quieter and it's easier to start as you're standing close together.

I think in general, guys enjoy talking to girls so just say hi and ask something simple; I don't know any guys that'd just ignore you or tell you to get lost as long as you weren't like all hyper and squealy or incoherently drunk, so you should be fine. You don't need to be particularly forward; just small talk and if the guy's nice, you can move forward from there.
If you are going to do that though, be careful about meeting some sleazy guys; some think a girl looking at them means they want to sleep with them, but by staying 'unforward' and noncommital to start with, you should avoid that kind of situation.

Not sure if it's too off topic to be useful advise, but maybe if you are looking to meet nice guys just to chat with and swap numbers, a bar/club would probably be one of the worse places to look; loud, lots of alcohol and typically a place that meetings between males and females end in pulling, which isn't what you want. Perhaps a coffee shop or cafe or something would be easier, if you are particularly interested in meeting someone. If it's specifically bars you want tips on, ignore that last paragraph! Good luck.

where else can you meet guys tho!
coffee shops/cafe are usually the worst cos guys dont usually go there.
i mean in class is always good but ive more or less met all my class mates and the only one i find attractive is in a long term relationship

it usually works when its a friend of a friend to be honest, but its come to the point where ive met most of my friends friends