gay/bi muslims

any gay/bi muslims here ? it would be nice to speak to some people going through the same situation as me and know how they've been dealing with it. im a gay man so it would be nice to speak to other gay/ bi muslim guys but hearing from girls would be comforting as well

I am not an expert but i don't think you can be a homosexual and muslim.

Cant be homosexual and muslim.

Cant be homosexual and muslim.

Yes you can. Even in Islam it’s only the homosexual act which is a sin so you can be a man attracted to other men who never acts on the desire. And even if you did have gay sex that would just mean you’ve sinned, it wouldn’t make you not Muslim. I believe only shirk (and possibly making takfir in certain contexts) takes you out of the fold of Islam.

Every religion, every country has it's share of gay men and women. It is nature and religious beliefs do not change that.

No offence but that’s deluded. Nobody cares if one is heterosexual or homosexual unless they act on that desires. Besides, it is pointless to claim to be part of a fold that does not want you there.

It’s not deluded, it’s fact. Whether other people care isn’t the point, it’s your attraction that makes you straight or gay and never acting on those desires doesn’t mean you don’t have a sexuality. And again, acting on those desires doesn’t take you out of Islam and there’s nothing in scripture to support this. Moreover, whether other Muslims want you or not in Islam is irrelevant, there are specific conditions you have to satisfy to be cast out of the faith and having gay sex is not one of them.

I disagree

I disagree

I also disagree. Gay sex is a major sin in Islam, alongside shirk (worshipping anyone other than Allah) To act on these desires would indeed take you out of the fold of the religion.

The Quran and hadith directly refer to this through the people of Prophet Lut. Please don't spread misinformation.

I also disagree. Gay sex is a major sin in Islam, alongside shirk (worshipping anyone other than Allah) To act on these desires would indeed take you out of the fold of the religion.

The Quran and hadith directly refer to this through the people of Prophet Lut. Please don't spread misinformation.

We have not done much to help the OP, who no doubt feels isolated and lonely. I am not Muslim myself, but I should be very surprised if there is not an LGBT group which offers support, and I would suggest he contacts Gay Switchboard. Anyway, I wish him all the best and hope he finds friendship and acceptance

Well tbf the OP hasn’t posted anything else or replied to anyone which is sadly typical of a lot of these threads.

I guess he feels we haven't been able to help him, though. It is sad that religions - whichever they are - feel the need to interfere in the bedroom, and make people feel bad about themselves through dogma.

Not necessarily, I've seen many of these threads where a lot of useful advice is given and still the OP never returns to respond to anyone. But I agree that giving false information such as “you can’t be gay and Muslim” is harmful and denies the real life situation OP finds himself in.

Honestly, the replies were just dismissive as **** and just shows how ****ed up this religion is. I didn't choose to be this way and im not harming anyone but these narrow minded people will never listen. that's okay, there's no point letting their words effect me. tbh, i was hoping someone who was gay and muslim could reply but so far none have. he first few replies were just making fun of me which made me anxious so i just stopped looking