Girls and Relationships

In due time

It's just I see other people with girlfriends, and they seem to have a great time together. Maybe I'm just being romantic but I really want someone who I can really love and care about, and for them to care about me, that's different to friends and family. I want someone who I can go out, have a good time, hold hands, maybe kiss and cuddle. Note that I am not only interested in sex, I'm 17 and although a lot of people do it at this age it's not a pressing concern for me. I just want someone who really likes me and I can get a bit close to

I'm doing well academically, have good mates and family, but I just feel there's something a bit missing, that I think would be filled by a nice girlfriend. She doesn't need to be stunning, just a nice person that we can appreciate each other for what we are and have great times together and a good laugh, with some kissing and cuddling added in

I'm in my final year at school, and to be honest I don't think it would work with anyone at my school anymore, I used to be a bit of a prick but I've become nicer and more outgoing now, maybe that will help. Maybe I'm just being too much of a romantic, but it's how I feel and I can't really help it. I think I'll just wait for university, just live through school for now, it's not too long now, and just try to have good time with mates

Anyway, that's what I think. What do you think of that?

terrible reply. Peeps told me that when i was 17 im now 25 and still waiting. U wont find anyone nice at school cos everyones so immature and say ooooh he fancies her!?but at uni u will easily find loads of choice i say wait for FRESHERS WEEK !!!

No. I accidentally posted anon above to someone saying the same thing.

that was an inbetweeners joke wasn't actually being mean.

It's just I see other people with girlfriends, and they seem to have a great time together. Maybe I'm just being romantic but I really want someone who I can really love and care about, and for them to care about me, that's different to friends and family. I want someone who I can go out, have a good time, hold hands, maybe kiss and cuddle. Note that I am not only interested in sex, I'm 17 and although a lot of people do it at this age it's not a pressing concern for me. I just want someone who really likes me and I can get a bit close to

I'm doing well academically, have good mates and family, but I just feel there's something a bit missing, that I think would be filled by a nice girlfriend. She doesn't need to be stunning, just a nice person that we can appreciate each other for what we are and have great times together and a good laugh, with some kissing and cuddling added in

I'm in my final year at school, and to be honest I don't think it would work with anyone at my school anymore, I used to be a bit of a prick but I've become nicer and more outgoing now, maybe that will help. Maybe I'm just being too much of a romantic, but it's how I feel and I can't really help it. I think I'll just wait for university, just live through school for now, it's not too long now, and just try to have good time with mates

Anyway, that's what I think. What do you think of that?

STFU, just because you cant get any doesnt mean nobody else can. Besides what you said is practically what I said. In due time = at uni which he stated he'll be going to.

I bet the OP gets friendzoned when he gets to uni and meets all the girls there.

You'll find love the moment you stop looking for it.

Just putting it out there, seeking out a girlfriend is generally not a good plan.

If you like someone then fair enough but actively searching for a girlfriend is not a good plan because it may make you look desperate.

Enjoy everything else you've got going for you. If something happens with a girl then great; if something doesn't then at least you know you're independent enough to be happy in yourself.