Being in a relationship is easy - when done right. Easier than not being in a relationship.
Having a default state of positivity, light-heartedness, focusing on the people and world around you is life on easy mode. Easier than the alternatives.
Not sweating the small stuff is easy. Easier than sweating the small stuff.
Doing stuff and taking action makes life easier than sitting there thinking about things.
Not boasting, not qualifying, not justifying yourself to a woman you've just met is easier than doing any of those things.
Leaning in to kiss a girl when your observations tell you she fully wants to kiss you is easier than sitting there awkwardly and thinking about it. If she pulls back take the easier route and be totally fine about her declining your kiss.
You are acting as your own biggest obstacle. Get out of the way of yourself. Start taking the wise easy route.