Hi, I only joined this JUST to respond. I completely understand how it must feel. My dad just died 3 weeks ago all of a sudden. My mum isn't taking it badly though, she's just got on with things to take her mind off of it. I would suggest you try and get your mum to do the same. Try to keep her active so she hardly has time to sit and think about how much she's hurting. She needs to remember she has all of you there for her and that's one of the things she needs to live for. To live and see her children grow because your dad can't do that any more.
Yeah I took it badly, I cried hysterically when I found out my dad was dying and I broke down when I had to say goodbye at the funeral which was only on Friday but I have to get on with life. I'm constantly told dad's greatest joy was seeing me go to university, so now I HAVE to do well just so he can continue being proud of me. I know my dad wouldn't want us crying over him or being depressed, and I doubt yours would too. He wouldn't want it to be the end for your mum, I'm sure he would want her to live her life to the fullest and try and remind her that. You have to continue life so you can continue making him proud. That's what I'm going to do.
By the way sorry for the long post. I just feel strongly about this for obvious reasons.
My friend quoted from the film 'The Crow'
‘If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Buildings burn, people die, but real love is forever.’
Please, remember, he will stay alive through your memories. As I've told everyone, it's okay to laugh and smile at my dad's memories, I hope your family can do the same.