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Not having a bf by 20

This will sound soooo stupid but my friend has just called for me with a new bf she said he was and I said Id go round in about an hour. Thing is im really nervous but no idea why :confused:

Im not jelous.
Anyway is there something to worry about if youv'e not had a bf/gf by 20 :redface:

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Reply 1

rachelrainbow32

im 16 and ive nevr had a bf.

Reply 2

AT82

No you only need to start worrying once you hit 40.

Reply 3

alio~

rachelrainbow32

im 16 and ive nevr had a bf.

Thats ok your only 16, im nearly 20 :eek:

Reply 4

sr4470

alio~

Anyway is there something to worry about if youv'e not had a bf/gf by 20 :redface:

Do you want one? (actually I can probably say the same to rachelrainbow as well)

Reply 5

rachelrainbow32

sr4470

Do you want one? (actually I can probably say the same to rachelrainbow as well)

Lol, not at the moment, i avnt got the time. I was merely making a statement.

Reply 6

Steph!

nah, there's nothing wrong with it. The right guy'll come along when you least expect it :wink:

Reply 7

Angel Interceptor

alio~

This will sound soooo stupid but my friend has just called for me with a new bf she said he was and I said Id go round in about an hour. Thing is im really nervous but no idea why :confused:

Im not jelous.
Anyway is there something to worry about if youv'e not had a bf/gf by 20 :redface:

don't worry, i know a few people who haven't been in a relationship by the time you're 20, so you're not the only one. plus, there's no pint getting a bf/gf unless you want one or meet the right person.

Reply 8

sr4470

rachelrainbow32

Lol, not at the moment, i avnt got the time. I was merely making a statement.

Nothing to worry about then. :wink:

Reply 9

alio~

sr4470

Do you want one? (actually I can probably say the same to rachelrainbow as well)

well kinda, but i wanna know why i went all scared :confused:

Reply 10

sr4470

alio~

well kinda, but i wanna know why i went all scared :confused:

I wouldnt know, its not the same as nervousness...what is it that you're afraid of exactly?

Reply 11

Profesh

I'm fast approaching nineteen and have never had a boyfriend, either. Although you probably shouldn't derive consolation from that.

Reply 12

alio~

sr4470

I wouldnt know, its not the same as nervousness...what is it that you're afraid of exactly?

Ive no idea, I suppose I dont like the idea of hanging around with them if their together, would be a bit aukward.

Reply 13

sr4470

alio~

Ive no idea, I suppose I dont like the idea of hanging around with them if theyre together, would be a bit awkward.

Tagging along isnt much fun, I can sympathise with you on that...

Reply 14

Da Mouse

Well I'm 19 and I've still havent had a bf. I'm not gonna start worrying until I'm around 26 years old lol. But then again, I do have ALOT of patience. I've spent all my life just studying.

Reply 15

Lady Narcissus

My first serious bf was at 20, and I am single now at 23 :frown:

Don't worry

Reply 16

sr4470

LauraWalker

My first serious bf was at 20, and I am single now at 23 :frown:

Don't worry

*Dons flameproof suit* it seems like a great deal of males dont understand the concept of a relationship...

Reply 17

Indus1986

no one likes you when your 23.

Reply 18

Creepy

sr4470

*Dons flameproof suit* it seems like a great deal of males dont understand the concept of a relationship...

Nice generalisation. I was in a 27 Month relationship from being 17 and a half, and it was the girl who did the deed that split us up. I was in love with her too, she went away to uni and well... you can guess the rest :frown:

Reply 19

sr4470

Indus1986

no one likes you when your 23.