Going Through Life Without Ever Having A Girlfriend - Can It Be Done?

I've have always believed I am a poor set of genes and that I have simply deserved this. Social darwinism and natural selection has played its part and that I am simply not up to societies standards. I've come to conclusion that I can't have children, because I would passing on bad genes, science is certainly telling me this.

If you've built a substantive emotional and physical attraction with a girl she won't walk out. Of course op can lie if he wants and there's no real harm done but there aren't 'many stories' of women walking out on men at this point.
Being a virgin isn't a big deal, it only takes a couple of goes to get a hang of things so why would a girl give up on him if he's a great guy over something as quick as a couple of nights of practise sex.

Some people on the Jeremy Kyle show may look ugly. But at least they have social skills.

I have absolutely none. And can't get a girlfriend realise that internet polling has showed me that girls wont date people over the age of 25+/30+ who are virgins, at least most them, like 60% from what I've found.

So thats most of the female population. Excellent, screwed for life. Its awful feeling like this.

I don't think it's worth the risk. A better idea would be for the OP should tell the female after he's mated with her that he's a virgin. That way she can't hold any power over him, because he's still lost it whether she stays or goes.

More thank likely she'll figure out in the middle of the act. Even if she buys it better to be thought of as a virgin than just **** in bed. But that's still definitely an option there's nothing wrong with just telling her afterwards.
This idea of 'holding power' is a pretty unhealthy approach though, a woman having sex with you doesn't equate to you getting one over on her.

lie?

Who are virgins, at least most them, like 60% from what I've found.

If its getting that desperate shouldn't I just have sex with an escort?

Because if we're going down the lying route, then I might as well have sex with an escort and deny that, but the difference is I would actually have experiance and would less likely be found obvious for acting like a virgin, if that makes sense?

Why do you think it is absolutely necessary for you to have a girlfriend to be happy? Do you suck that much on the other areas of your life that only a girlfriend could make you happy?
Look I am not gonna say that you'll find someone. It's about luck, being at the right place at the right time. The only advice I can give you is not to base your hapiness on having a girlfriend. There are many things that say more about your worth and skill than a girl.

How would you feel about going through life without ever having a girlfriend?

I would not mind not having a girlfriend if I was successful in the other areas of my life. The only thing I know I can't be happy without is my family.
As long as I have them, a successful job can compensate for not having a girlfriend the same way that a girlfriend can compensate for a not so successful job.
I don't know how I will change in 5 or 10 years but right now I can say with certainty that it's not imperative for me to have a girlfriend to be happy.

Some people on the Jeremy Kyle show may look ugly. But at least they have social skills.

I have absolutely none. And can't get a girlfriend realise that internet polling has showed me that girls wont date people over the age of 25+/30+ who are virgins, at least most them, like 60% from what I've found.

So thats most of the female population. Excellent, screwed for life. Its awful feeling like this.

Ok guys I have to come to terms with something thats bothered me for a long time.

I'm a virgin, I'm 25 and I turn 26 in a couple of months. In addition I've never had a relationship either.

From my experiances, this a major red flag for the majority of women say 80-90% of them when you get to this age. Its bothered me so much that I even considered suicide on many occassions last year, but now I'm seeking councilling about it and my social life in general.

I've have always believed I am a poor set of genes and that I have simply deserved this. Social darwinism and natural selection has played its part and that I am simply not up to societies standards. I've come to conclusion that I can't have children, because I would passing on bad genes, science is certainly telling me this.

I can't get a girlfriend, and by nearly 26 I've never had one and I know by the time you get to this age you'll never get one. No girlfriend by 25, and well, you're love life is over. No women are going to want an inexperianced guy and thats understandable.

Is it this hard to accept? You damn right it is, infact its killing me inside, but after being suicidal for months about it, I realise that the only way I can imagine to stay alive is learning how to live with it and learning to accept myself.

I'm going to go through life without having a girlfriend as I'm simply too old now, I have another 50-60 years to live in this world and I've got to be able to learn to live with this fact and at the moment its ROCK HARD. I'm crying every night even now.

But science is telling that I cannot have a girlfriend or a relationship, the signs are pointing this way and I'm so depressed accepting this fact but I know I have to if there's anyway I can live on this planet for another 50-60 years successfully.

Life's just not meant to be sometimes, I didn't choose to be born in this world, I didn't choose to go through this in some ways, its natural selection playing its part and I fully accept it.

Buts its very depressing, almost like grieving knowing my life will have to be this way.

Is there any other guys who are like who feel the same way and in the same situation?

Though I don't think you should ever give up hope completely, I guess you may be right about many women finding inexperience a turnoff by that age, but even if you are, forget about them, the main thing is that even if the 80-90% guess is correct (which I suspect it may be an exaggeration), there's still that 10-20% surely?