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Men who go to see escorts

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Original post by Anonymous
I've been unable to find any girls going for this kind of price.

Really? I can name several but cannot due to TSR rules.
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Original post by Anonymous

I know the conventional wisdom. That I should work on my social skills and personality and work on vibing and bonding with women in order to get a real girlfriend but tbh I can't really be bothered with all the psychological mind games and gambits of modern dating.

Because having decent social skills is only useful for bedding women, and you know, totally isn't useful for engaging with the other 6 billion people on the planet.
Original post by noteraz
I use escorts every 2-3 weeks or even weekly when business goes well mostly in London.

I don't pay them hourly, just book them for the whole night, usually 9PM till 7AM for £1k excluding hotel + drinks/food.

Most of these girls are eastern europeans and are very good looking with perfect bodies and will behave like everything you see on porn vids. Only problem is communication as they can't speak English too well and the reason i like booking them for the whole night is because i like talking to them about stuff and build up the sexual feeling before going all out. Really can't imagine paying a girl for an hour and she just walks into the room and drops her panties, really not my style.

These girls do make hell alot of money but it's definetly not worth it. After a few years of doing this business they will be mentally scarred and will have alot of psycological problems because their emotions and feelings have been played with by hundreds of men if not thousands. Most of the clients these girls have are old rich dirty men and when they see a young fresh man like me they tend to be alot happier LOL.

The reason i take escorts is because i have a very busy lifestyle, just do not have time for relationships and the extras that come along with it. Sex is a very big need for a man and controling it will only cause more stress. I feel alot more relaxed/confident/contempt after the sessions i have with these escorts. I mean what's the point me making money working hard 24/7 when i can't even enjoy it?


do you happen to know how many men they get through in a typical week? I'd find it kind of grotesque knowing a bunch of blokes have been there so recently.

Also, do you know how to spot symptoms of STIs?
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Original post by tehFrance
Really? I can name several but cannot due to TSR rules.


I would ask you to PM me but I'm unwilling to reveal my identity.

Original post by Piprod01
Because having decent social skills is only useful for bedding women, and you know, totally isn't useful for engaging with the other 6 billion people on the planet.


Fair point. But don't you agree that flirting, dating and the whole courtship process requires a different skill-set all on it's own?
Original post by Anonymous
What's the general opinion on men who go to see escorts?

Are these men generally seen as inadequate? After all, they're paying for some, which suggests that they would go without otherwise.

I've been toying with the idea of paying for a high class escort (£100+/hour) because it's the only scenario wherein I'd be able to **** a girl as hot as that.

I know the conventional wisdom. That I should work on my social skills and personality and work on vibing and bonding with women in order to get a real girlfriend but tbh I can't really be bothered with all the psychological mind games and gambits of modern dating. Flirting and dating just doesn't seem all that fun anymore.


I don't think you should worry about societal perceptions of using hookers. If someone asks, just lie.

Really, the only thing to be concerned about is STIs.
Original post by Anonymous
I would ask you to PM me but I'm unwilling to reveal my identity.

create a new account.
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Original post by Dirac Delta Function
I don't think you should worry about societal perceptions of using hookers. If someone asks, just lie.

Really, the only thing to be concerned about is STIs.


And 99% of escorts refuse "bareback".
Original post by Anonymous
And 99% of escorts refuse "bareback".


So they should!
Original post by Anonymous
And 99% of escorts refuse "bareback".

If they allow bareback run to the hills.
Reply 49
Original post by GdotL
I think it's terribly pathetic and guys who've done this should come with a ****ing sign on their foreheads.


Tbh, I have never done this, but you can't exactly blame men for having a high sex drive. Its not like women need sex like men, I mean women can happily go for a long time without. Whats the alternative? rape?
Reply 50
Original post by hiding12
Tbh, I have never done this, but you can't exactly blame men for having a high sex drive. Its not like women need sex like men, I mean women can happily go for a long time without. Whats the alternative? rape?


Sorry I just don't believe that men 'need' sex. Of course they want it, just like women with similar sex drives do too. Tbh, I'm not slating the idea of prostitution just that personally I wouldn't want to get involved with a guy who prized the idea of sex (with just anyone) so highly.
Reply 51
Original post by GdotL
The hotness and the price (and sometimes the intelligence).


Original post by barnetbuzzzz
They're hot and reasonably intelligent and well spoken, which pretty much ticks the required boxes for guys.


I neither condone nor condemn the use of escorts but I'm curious about a point both of you made. Unless you plan on discussing geo-political relations in the middle-east or quantum mechanics, whilst doing the deed, why does intelligence matter if you're simply banging? :rolleyes:

Will the sex be more intense with an escort who has an M.Sc. in Biomechanics compared to one who was a GCSE dropout? :confused:
Reply 52
Original post by Zangoose
I neither condone nor condemn the use of escorts but I'm curious about a point both of you made. Unless you plan on discussing geo-political relations in the middle-east or quantum mechanics, whilst doing the deed, why does intelligence matter if you're simply banging? :rolleyes:

Will the sex be more intense with an escort who has an M.Sc. in Biomechanics compared to one who was a GCSE dropout? :confused:


This is such a typical TSR response. Of all the things you could pick at regarding escorts you choose qualifications and education.
Reply 53
Original post by GdotL
Sorry I just don't believe that men 'need' sex. Of course they want it, just like women with similar sex drives do too. Tbh, I'm not slating the idea of prostitution just that personally I wouldn't want to get involved with a guy who prized the idea of sex (with just anyone) so highly.


Its not necessarily prizing it, its just needing it, I suppose you would object to them not prizing it as well. It doesn't really matter what you believe, its just science men have more testosterone than women.
Reply 54
Original post by Anonymous
This is such a typical TSR response. Of all the things you could pick at regarding escorts you choose qualifications and education.


That was just one example amongst many others. Settle down, son.

I'm interested to know how you rank the intelligence level of 'high class' escorts you haven't even met. Is that not also based on some sort of qualification?
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Reply 55
Original post by Zangoose
I neither condone nor condemn the use of escorts but I'm curious about a point both of you made. Unless you plan on discussing geo-political relations in the middle-east or quantum mechanics, whilst doing the deed, why does intelligence matter if you're simply banging? :rolleyes:

Will the sex be more intense with an escort who has an M.Sc. in Biomechanics compared to one who was a GCSE dropout? :confused:


It's about being well-spoken, pleasant and non-chavvy. It makes a more classy and enjoyable experience, like you're having sex with a gorgeous nice girl as opposed to a cheap slut.
Reply 56
Original post by hiding12
Its not necessarily prizing it, its just needing it, I suppose you would object to them not prizing it as well. It doesn't really matter what you believe, its just science men have more testosterone than women.


Of course more testosterone but that doesn't mean you can't live without sex. Of course masturbation is good for a release but to get to the levels of actually paying someone for sex is something I find incredibly unattractive in a man.
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Original post by Zangoose
That was just one example amongst many others. Settle down, son.

I'm interested to know how you rank the intelligence level of 'high class' escorts you haven't even met. Is that not also based on some sort of qualification?


I ask them if they did a degree, what the degree was and which Uni did they study at. It's the only way, my friend. And you know this.
Reply 58
Original post by Anonymous
I ask them if they did a degree, what the degree was and which Uni did they study at. It's the only way, my friend. And you know this.


Your sarcastic reply to my genuine question shows you are shying away after realising your hypocrisy. Or it could just mean you're a troll which I suspected anyway.
Good day.

Spoiler

(edited 11 years ago)
Reply 59
Original post by GdotL
Of course more testosterone but that doesn't mean you can't live without sex. Of course masturbation is good for a release but to get to the levels of actually paying someone for sex is something I find incredibly unattractive in a man.


obv its not attractive but perhaps necessary for some men.

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