Do you let your bf go to strip clubs?

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Do you let your bf go to strip clubs?
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I went on a stag do to Prague with a group of friends. My wife knew that it was likely that we'd go to strip clubs but it was never discussed.
However, me being the overhonest guilt ridden idiot that I was called her up one night from the hotel and drunkenly announced "I've jusht sheen shtrippersh....!!! That didn't go down well.
Note to other men. If it is understood to be unspoken, leave it unspoken!
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If it was a one off for a stag do or something i'm not going to forbid him from going with the rest of the guys, but if he was just hanging around them constantly for no other reason than to get a rub down from a stripper than no i would not be happy...
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aren't girls strange?They're ok about bf watching porn but not strips
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I think there is a difference between watching it on a screen and seeing it in person, particularly when in many clubs it can get a bit touchy-feely.
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He's never shown any interest, but I wouldn't mind if he did
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I'd have no issue with it... But I think I'm more interested in going to strip clubs than he is. Maybe we'll make it a date sometime...
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(Original post by Tigers)
aren't girls strange?They're ok about bf watching porn but not strips
Well, there is a bit of a difference between some girl on a screen who he's never likely to meet and a real live girl in a thong gyrating on his lap for money.
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I'd let him go, but I would say no touching and definitely no private dance, and I wouldn't want to hear about it afterwards.
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I'd let him go, but I would say no touching and definitely no private dance, and I wouldn't want to hear about it afterwards.
only once or more?
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I don't see the appeal of strip clubs. I've been in one and they just feel soulless, dirty, dodgy, the drinks are often crap and all the women are tramps and the guys in them are usually the **** stains of society.


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(Original post by deedee123)
If it was a one off for a stag do or something i'm not going to forbid him from going with the rest of the guys, but if he was just hanging around them constantly for no other reason than to get a rub down from a stripper than no i would not be happy...
If that means what I think it does, it's not what strippers do. In fact, no touching is a common policy in strip clubs (that goes both ways).
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(Original post by datpiff)
I don't see the appeal of strip clubs. I've been in one and they just feel soulless, dirty, dodgy, the drinks are often crap and all the women are tramps and the guys in them are usually the **** stains of society.


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Maybe go to the more expensive ones.

Lol why the neg? You think bankers/lawyers don't go to strip clubs? They might still be sleaze, but they're not the "**** stains of society"
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Ive said to my boyfriend if he ended up in a strip club with his mates I wouldnt care what I would have a massive problem with though is if he paid for a private dance, if he actually paid a woman to take her clothes of and give him a private dance id probbaly dump him
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Ive said to my boyfriend if he ended up in a strip club with his mates I wouldnt care what I would have a massive problem with though is if he paid for a private dance, if he actually paid a woman to take her clothes of and give him a private dance id probbaly dump him
what's the difference in a private dance?(if she only strips)
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My boyfriend is not interested in that type of thing. To be honest, if he was interested in it too much then I might not have been attracted to him in the firs place.

If he asked me to go to a strip club now though then I would say yes without thinking twice, because I know his real character.
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I've shattered my boyfriend's fantasy of strip clubs and strippers lol.
If he went to one on a random night out though-I wouldn't care a jot. It'd just be a bit of fun to him.
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I wouldn't forbid him from going, but I'd get a bit wary if he was going to strip clubs every week or something.
I don't think he's the kind of guy who would want to go to a strip club often anyway.

But yeah, at the end of the day, he isn't going to out kiss/have sex other girls, so it wouldn't really bother me.
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(Original post by sugarmouse)
I've shattered my boyfriend's fantasy of strip clubs and strippers lol.
If he went to one on a random night out though-I wouldn't care a jot. It'd just be a bit of fun to him.
so the fact that he looks at other girls naked bodies(probably because he finds them more attractive) wouldn't bother you?
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(Original post by Tigers)
so the fact that he looks at other girls naked bodies(probably because he finds them more attractive) wouldn't bother you?
Sorry I mis-worded that. He doesn't go to them-but if he did go to one as part of a night out, no it wouldn't bother me, and if he got a dance from one I wouldn't suppose it was because he found them more attractive than he finds me.

It's probably worth mentioning that I'm a stripper.
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