In your relationship, would you say that you are the dominant or submissive one?

Depends on how intelligent they are, to me.
Whoever is smartest will most likely be dominant.

shut up

aabb
nottingham

It's OK.
I'll find a boyfriend who goes to Nott Trent, I'll be dominant.

Depends on how intelligent they are, to me.
Whoever is smartest will most likely be dominant.

i like it when yu back down from arguments.

This is ridiculous. Can you tell me why you think this, if you're serious?

I'm not controlling, I'm really indecisive actually. I'm practically passive unless I really want something.
But only because I saw what happened to Dad when he tried to speak his needs to my mum and it wasn't pretty. To this day I can't decide whether she was a bitchy control freak or he was a wuss for being whipped.

I don't think anyone is ever a wuss for being 'whipped.' Anyone who domineers over their partner is always responsible for a relationship dynamic like that. If your partner isn't meeting your standards, you either accept it or move on. It's never good to boss them around into your way of thinking, and no one ever deserves, merits or asks to be treated that way.

I have no idea if your mum is a 'bitchy control freak' or just has a aggressive personality, but even knowing nothing about your dad, I'm pretty sure you can't blame him.