Gf found porn on my laptop

If that is so then that's more of a reflection of her state of mind, rather than any kind of moral absolute about the situation.

The way I see it, girls want to be kept in a bubble. As long as you care enough to make a convincing enough lie, that's good enough.

I would rather know the truth actually and I think it says more about your disposition in that you think it is okay just to bs your way through a relationship. Do you like to be lied to?

If you were my bf I would have dumped u at that moment i found out.
I had an argument with my bf when I found out that he stil watches porn bcoz it drives me mad thinking about him pleasuring himself over other women.. probably coz I love him so much

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To be honest - everyone else is getting really upset over this but I wouldn't. I mean, I wouldn't exactly wanna watch/think of the videos myself, but they'd be my boyfriend's memories/experiences not mine. I think I could understand that it's just about the sexual fantasy aspect, not some suppressed desire to get back with them. Really what's the difference between imagining and watching? Both are a world apart from actually doing (or wanting to do).

Then again my boyfriend doesn't have ex-gfs so perhaps I don't have a good perspective on the ex jealousy thing.

Maybe if you really, really try to explain to your girlfriend? I wouldn't recommend lying.

I have been with my girl for 6 months and she was working on my laptop for a uni essay when she found a folder. It's not porn from online but videos of my 2 ex gfs, having sex with them, blowjobs and so on. The tapes were made with their consent obviously.

Not going to lie, I like them and want to keep them. My gf got really angry and is not talking to me like before. She said it's creepy, disgusting, they are whores.

I don't know how to resolve this.