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prostitute or wait

Serious post. Right i am 16 and don't know what to do im so horny all the time i want to have sex what should i do instead of wa**
Just wait. :smile:
Reply 2
Wait and fap..dont visit tarts. Its not physically/mentally/financially/emotionally healthy..in short,it just isnt worth it..
+ Paying should enable you to lose your virginity.

- Although you're 'legal', most escorts wouldn't accept a booking from someone who they think is 16.

- If it doesn't go well, you've paid a substantial sum for it.

- If it does go well, you're not going to be able to repeat it without paying another substantial sum - the comment about it not being 'financially healthy' is spot on.

- If you want to know what the physical sensations are like, get a Fleshlight.

- There really is more to sex than sticking your penis inside a vagina, there's the emotional side too, and you won't get that from paying for it.
Reply 4
You have to think...10 years from now; do you want to be the guy who lost his virginity by paying for sex?

And chill, you're 16; it's not that big of a deal if you don't clash with the person personality/sexual attraction and skill-wise.
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
Serious post. Right i am 16 and don't know what to do im so horny all the time i want to have sex what should i do instead of wa**


It depends on you really. If you're that desperate, by all means go for a prostitute/escort as I'm sure you could easily lie about your age and they wouldn't have a clue. It might be slightly taboo but plenty of men do it because they need to. However if you're prepared to wait a while and put the extra effort into meeting the right girl, getting into a stable relationship with her and then having sex - respect to you.

It's entirely your choice - you need to decide what sex means to you and whether or not you're willing to give up the emotional connection as well as money (as mentioned above). How would you see yourself afterwards - would you feel guilty or relieved? I personally would go for the escort because my relationships never work out, but you need to ask yourself if sex is more important than a relationship. Don't think about what other people might say - if you feel you would be happy losing your virginity to an escort then you shouldn't let anyone stand in your way. Hope everything works out OK - PM me if you need any advice. :smile:
Isn't it actually illegal? Although the age of Consent is 16 in the UK, isn't it 18 to solicite it?
Reply 7
Original post by jammy4041
Isn't it actually illegal? Although the age of Consent is 16 in the UK, isn't it 18 to solicite it?

Soliciting is actually the business of being in a public place for the purposes of selling sex on the part of the tart or by kerb crawling/approaching on foot in a public place on the part of the mug punter.

My advice stands..stay at home,fap and wait.

If OP goes to a tart, he will be the guy who lost his cherry to a whore,he might get ripped off, he will pay a lot of money and chances are as soon as the girl touches him he will shoot anyway. Big anti climax..
Original post by jammy4041
Isn't it actually illegal? Although the age of Consent is 16 in the UK, isn't it 18 to solicite it?


It's an offence to buy sexual services from someone who you don't have a reasonable belief is 18+.

There's no specific age for being the person buying, so the normal age of consent rules apply.

Most transactions don't involve 'soliciting' because that's just when it happens in person in a public place. Arranging a booking over the phone / internet / visiting a brothel etc don't count.
Wait a few years at least. At 16 you certainly aren't 'missing out' - many if not most people your age probably haven't had sex.

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