My brother is 26 and I am 21, having moved back home from uni (in London). He is frankly abusive. We all have to be careful of how we eat and drink because the littlest thing aggregates him. He swears and is rude. Everything revolves around him, he gets priority for everything. He blocks us in the drive so we can't get in/out and he leaves his keys in the door so we can't go out. My parents frequently complain about this to me and yet they say nothing to me. He also lost the dog and we only found her by chance; my parents said little about it and certainly nothing to his face and put in this way, our dog is treated like a God. Memory foam mattress, all the toys in the world everything.
We used to get on so well but now he is frankly vile and deliberately picks fights. One time he threatened to hit me several in front of his girlfriend and hit the sofa I was sat on. I was so scared I barricaded my bedroom door. My parents know about this and apparently spoke to him but I never had an apology. I have blocked him and his girlfriend on Facebook. Another time he shouted at me constantly swearing etc. as I was going to order a family takeaway. This was last night and he left with his girlfriend. I still have not had an apology and he is coming home with his girlfriend so my parents will definitely not speak to him. My sister-in-law said two months ago before the dog and threatening incident that my parents were thinking of kicking him out. He lives at home rent-free. I have barely lived at home since I was 18. I would move out if I could but I am on £8p/h and my the time I have paid all my bills I would be broke. I only moved home to save up for a deposit before going to London for a 'career' job. My brother does nothing for my parents. I do all my Dad's business emails, his invoices etc. and I list all his stuff on eBay for him. I text for both my parents because they can't be bothered and make them drinks every hour. My dad just came in as I was typing this asking me to get a splinter out of his finger. If I ever complain or say how my brother gets away with murder he always tries to sweet talk me "do it for me" "oh please" It's at the stage were I am loosing respect for my Dad as I see him as nothing more than a coward.
I seriously hate my life right now, I want to cry. I hate my job and I hate my family. All I have to look forward to is horse riding once a week and that is it.