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26 never had a gf, not a virgin and now suffer from Ed! Will I ever get a gf?

Right so 26 never had a gf, now suffer from erectile dysfunction as a consequence of a lack in confidence, depression etc. Met a few girls who I've liked & had the chance to get into a relationship with but all dumped me for my Ed! Only when women start giving me more of a chance will my Ed get any better, until then every girl I meet if they don't stick around or show support, my Ed will get worse & worse! How will I ever get a gf?
Reply 1
I think you should go for virgins in their 20s. We're usually a very understanding bunch :smile:
Reply 2
Original post by niles123
Right so 26 never had a gf, now suffer from erectile dysfunction as a consequence of a lack in confidence, depression etc. Met a few girls who I've liked & had the chance to get into a relationship with but all dumped me for my Ed! Only when women start giving me more of a chance will my Ed get any better, until then every girl I meet if they don't stick around or show support, my Ed will get worse & worse! How will I ever get a gf?

If you suffer from erectile dysfunction at age 26, have you seen a doctor about it?
Reply 3
Yea and they're acting like no big deal, I take viagra which foesn't work all the time, but hey if I get lucky it does, also gone to Pschotherapy which hasn't really helped if I'm honest
Reply 4
I can't attract any young girls the youngest I've attracted is 35 :/
Reply 5
Can't attract younger than 35 !!:/
Reply 6
Original post by catsis
I think you should go for virgins in their 20s. We're usually a very understanding bunch :smile:


Can't attract younger than 35
Reply 7
Original post by Ronove
If you suffer from erectile dysfunction at age 26, have you seen a doctor about it?


Yea and they're acting like no big deal, I take viagra which foesn't work all the time, but hey if I get lucky it does, also gone to Pschotherapy which hasn't really helped if I'm honest
Reply 8
Original post by niles123
Right so 26 never had a gf, now suffer from erectile dysfunction as a consequence of a lack in confidence, depression etc. Met a few girls who I've liked & had the chance to get into a relationship with but all dumped me for my Ed! Only when women start giving me more of a chance will my Ed get any better, until then every girl I meet if they don't stick around or show support, my Ed will get worse & worse! How will I ever get a gf?


Get some viagra or if it's a medical problem (rather than just a lack of confidence) go and see the GP.
Reply 9
Original post by Tom78
Get some viagra or if it's a medical problem (rather than just a lack of confidence) go and see the GP.


Done that ^^

Viagra doesn't work 100% of the time & psychotherapy hasn't helped in the last 2 years!

Now awaiting counselling/ sex therapy even though I'm not entirely sure what to expect
Reply 10
Original post by niles123
Done that ^^

Viagra doesn't work 100% of the time & psychotherapy hasn't helped in the last 2 years!

Now awaiting counselling/ sex therapy even though I'm not entirely sure what to expect


Whilst I sympathise mate, I don't think you're going to get a useful response here, given your situation.
You sound exactly like my ex. Half of the battle with him was that he was constantly beating himself up about it.

What sort of shape are you in? Sometimes being overweight can make ED worse.
Reply 12
Original post by Illuminate.
You sound exactly like my ex. Half of the battle with him was that he was constantly beating himself up about it.

What sort of shape are you in? Sometimes being overweight can make ED worse.


I'm a personal trainer & In good shape!!! It's not medical I'm pretty sure it's just the last 13 years of pure rejection from younger girls which has caused this

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