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    I've been with my bf for 11 months and we still haven't sex. He says he wants to but it never seems to work out. It's bad because I dont know how much longer i can remain patient. Any suggestons?
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    How does it not work out? Do you get interrupted or something?
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    (Original post by C_tinie_D)
    How does it not work out? Do you get interrupted or something?
    He doesn't stay hard. Only lasts like a few seconds.
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    Go down on him for longer, tell him there's nothing to worry about - don't put pressure on the situation and just let it happen naturally. If it's not anxiety related look into **** rings or worst case viagra - if he's young it's more likely to be anxiety though.
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    (Original post by Metropolis)
    find a real man
    Really? Seriously? Some men have problems okay. That doesn't mean they aren't a real man and it doesn't mean they don't deserve love. Have you taken him to see a doctor to see what his problem is? Or maybe getting him some viagra to help him. Don't put him down over it and DEFINITELY don't dump him because of it. It will ruin him. Just help him, that's the best advice you could give.


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