I have always, liked lets say, the girl I cheated with.
Long before I was in a relationship with my girlfriend.

Our relationship has been always a rocky one too.

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do you think that cheaters are bad people?

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Original post by Anonymous

What were you doing that constituted cheating??

We kissed, hugged and slept in my bed for a night.
Nothing else happened.

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Original post by mrno1324

How did you end up banging another girl? is she your friend, ex, one night stand?

I didn't 'bang' anyone else.
She isn't an ex
Not really ONS as there was no sex

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Original post by liquity

do you think that cheaters are bad people?

Circumstances dependent

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Original post by skd1996

Do you regret it? Not the same as feeling bad about it, given the chance would you go back and not do it at all?

I feel bad about it yes.
Regret it? I'm unsure. Part of me regrets it, part enjoyed her company.

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I have always, liked lets say, the girl I cheated with.
Long before I was in a relationship with my girlfriend.

Our relationship has been always a rocky one too.

Are you and your gf still together? If not will you pursue a relationship with this new person?

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Original post by Anonymous

Circumstances dependent

so where is the limit of the cheating person not being a bad person? imo if the guy does anything that only I would do with him with another girl then he is a cheater and therefore a bad person, because i can imagine your girlfriend felt like she was never good enough for you?

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Original post by liquity

so where is the limit of the cheating person not being a bad person? imo if the guy does anything that only I would do with him with another girl then he is a cheater and therefore a bad person, because i can imagine your girlfriend felt like she was never good enough for you?

There's no 'fixed' point, it's all subjective.
E.G. If someone's girlfriend was also promiscuous, then would it be cheating if the previously faithful partner seeked the comfort of another women?

I don't know how she felt, she just went ballistic, we never met since then.

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Original post by skd1996

How did you girlfriend react? How did you get "caught"?

She went ballistic
Crying, Clawing at me, Shouting, etc...
Also broke my lamp by throwing it at me

I was caught because she has all my keys and she stays over with me 3/4 times a week.

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Original post by Anonymous

There's no 'fixed' point, it's all subjective.
E.G. If someone's girlfriend was also promiscuous, then would it be cheating if the previously faithful partner seeked the comfort of another women?

I don't know how she felt, she just went ballistic, we never met since then.

yes it would still be cheating, getting revenge on someone who cheated and who you're still in a relationship with is still cheating, doing anything that you would exclusively do with your significant other with someone who is not your significant other is cheating!
well i doubt she'd tell you exactly how she felt, i can imagine the rage would be enough at that point. i think her reaction is justifiable