A guy who automatically want to get with you just based on how you look worth it?

I've met a few guys like this and I don't think they're worth my time really. If I like a guy, it's a mix of looks and his personality.

I never trusted guys who want to talk to you just based on how you look. They want to get with you without even having a conversation with you first. Do you think these guys are worth it?

This guy I'm talking about is cousins with MY cousins husband so it's not just a random guy on the street. but still id like to know, why would a guy want to talk to you without it being casual and go with the flow kind of thing?


Feel me or I'm making no sense?

Because the other alternative is approaching women we don't find attractive. They might turn out to be wonderful people but if one isn't attracted to them then what do you hope we will achieve by doing this?

Attractiveness is the quickest criteria we can determine so it makes sense for it to be prioritised accordingly.

Yeah, because god forbid you should ever talk to a female for any other reason other than trying to stick your penis in them.

Are you REALLY this shallow in real life? You sound like you're 14 years old.

There are a couple replies here that gave me major side eye.

Yes but I'm not going to talk to someone just because they look good.

Yeah, because god forbid you should ever talk to a female for any other reason other than trying to stick your penis in them.

Are you REALLY this shallow in real life? You sound like you're 14 years old.

What are you talking about? OP is clearly talking about approaches with the intention of taking things further. If we aren't then yeah I do it all the time especially when I need the time or to check when the next bus is turning up.
Nice strawman attempt though.

If you find a guy attractive, I imagine you'd want to talk to him, take things further etc. If you found him repulsively ugly, then you wouldn't, let's be honest.

Nothing wrong with that. It's how the world works.

Lol the vast majority of men and women will base things on physical attraction, and nothing wrong with that.

I never trusted guys who want to talk to you just based on how you look. They want to get with you without even having a conversation with you first. Do you think these guys are worth it?

This guy I'm talking about is cousins with MY cousins husband so it's not just a random guy on the street. but still id like to know, why would a guy want to talk to you without it being casual and go with the flow kind of thing?


Feel me or I'm making no sense?

I never trusted guys who want to talk to you just based on how you look.

What other basis would thye have for talking to you?

That's the point - she's complaining about guys like you who never talk to women for any other reason than to try and **** them

You literally said
"what do you hope we will achieve by [approaching unattractive women]?"

Can you honestly not think of a single reason to talk to a woman you aren't actively trying to ****?

The implication is with the intent of intimacy whether it be sex OR relationship. I swear you just troll this forum waiting for a strawman opportunity to justify your bleak existence.

And same with the next pretty girl he sees. Guys like this aren't worth your time.

Wait, if this is already your opinion, why even bother with the thread? Undecided or need external validation of views? (not edging, just curious)

lol. Nice ad hominem.

I think we've established that you are exactly the type of creepy guy that the OP is complaining about. No wonder you don't "get it". If you got it, you wouldn't be some damn creepy all the time and try to hit on anything in a skirt like some 70's DJ.