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Am I good looking or not.

Don't know how to judge myself. I consider myself to be ugly and not good looking in any instance. Lots of friends and girls I have been on dates with have said I am. But since I have been on Tinder my confidence has plummeted. It has confirmed what I thought of myself. I only ever seem to match with people I am not attracted to. Ones that I do match with on Tinder I actually fancy when I message them I never seem to get replies. What should I do?? :eek:

And your point is? Do you want a partner or not? If so, don't expect it'll happen overnight. Get yourself "out there" i.e. join a sports club, volunteer etc. and enjoy life, you'll be attractive no matter how you look.

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phunky_fresh

You're just going to have to be patient, you can't be everyone's cup of tea. I am yet to be matched with someone I'm attracted to and I know I'm not ugly. I've messaged men and I haven't received a response, it's just how it goes sometimes.