Girl from Tinder wants to sleep with me but I'm gay?

This guy clearly got a PHD in Holelology.

Are people even believing this?

I actually believe the basics, but believe they're exaggerated. We've had this conversation before.
"Social experiments " are his thing.
There is obviously an MH issue of some kind. Be it true narcissism, psychopathy or sociopathy. Or something else.
I actually also believe the family dynamics too
Wether glassapple acknowledges it or not, every single thread he creates mentions the lack of parental attention. I'm sure his behaviour is becoming more and more excessive in an attempt to get it. Parents cannot negate their responsibilities with copious amounts of money.
Putting himself in dangerous situations is going to end badly one day in some shape or form.
Escalating his behaviour to hurt another living being deliberately is not the only issue. Someone will hurt him too. Probably only physically though.
His parents should be thoroughly ashamed. Their incompetence has bred an incredibly damaged child and for that I feel sorry for him

Maybe he just restates these elements (age, wealth, family, sexuality, psychology) to make sure all the readers are aware of his made-up persona. I still am not convinced that a professional would diagnose a personality disorder to a minor for example.

Why not? There are specialist psychiatry services for adolescents. And the OP has a private psychiatrist

Why not? There are specialist psychiatry services for adolescents. And the OP has a private psychiatrist

Although I tend to disagree with psychiatrists (&co), I believe it's common practice not to diagnose such things to minors because their personality hasn't already developed fully.

Although I tend to disagree with psychiatrists (&co), I believe it's common practice not to diagnose such things to minors because their personality hasn't already developed fully.

Thanks. Below is for your reference, not directed at you.



A quick google would have shown you: http://m.choosehelp.com/topics/parenting-family-therapy/is-your-teen-a-narcissist-learn-the-warning-signs-and-treatment-options#heading-diagnosing-narcissist-personality-disorder

There is no issue diagnosing minors like myself with this if the criteria are met. I was diagnosed at the end of August 2015 when I turned 15 (I'm 16 now). I'm sure having a private psychiatrist has helped not having to go through the layers of NHS beaurocracy to reach the diagnosis, which probably would have taken years of referrals, misdiagnosis and shunting about between services.

A quick google would have shown you: http://m.choosehelp.com/topics/parenting-family-therapy/is-your-teen-a-narcissist-learn-the-warning-signs-and-treatment-options#heading-diagnosing-narcissist-personality-disorder

There is no issue diagnosing minors like myself with this if the criteria are met. I was diagnosed at the end of August 2015 when I turned 15 (I'm 16 now). I'm sure having a private psychiatrist has helped not having to go through the layers of NHS beaurocracy to reach the diagnosis, which probably would have taken years of referrals, misdiagnosis and shunting about between services.

you sound like a bit of a jerk tbh. Why are you leading her on? How would you feel if someone pretended to be gay and did this to you?

I'm 16 and gay, from London but currently on holiday in Milan with my dad. I was bored today so I downloaded Tinder for the first time and pretended I was straight (I had nothing better to do after breakfast and I was bored).

I swiped right on a girl (who is really hot by straight standards) and we got talking. She's 18, English and also on holiday. We met at my hotel, had a coffee and we 'got on', all the while I pretended I was straight and 18 as a social experiment. She said she's looking for sex and that if I messaged her tomorrow we definitely could (she was on a tight schedule with her parents today but free any time tomorrow). We snogged (ew) and now she's messaging me saying she wants to come to my hotel tomorrow and have full sex with me; she's really up for it.

Obviously I don't want this as I'm gay and I shouldn't have started this whole thing, but I was so bored this morning I needed something new to do. What do I do now? She knows the hotel I'm staying at and who I am. I've had sex with two girls before and I know I don't like it.

You both seem like shining examples of humanity.

Ultimately, I think we're all curious about your actions yesterday........

So, what did you do in the end?

Exactly what I thought

I met her at 1pm yesterday at my hotel. We went to my room and we had sex. I really didn't like it (I did manage to finish in her while thinking about guys, but it was hard, I could tell she was enjoying it throughout and after I finished she said she loved it) We kissed and made out a lot (I didn't like that either). Just after I finished in her I turned on the TV and on the Apple TV there were pictures of me kissing a guy and she watched in shock as I flicked through the pics of me with different guys. She started to swear and asked if I was gay, I said yes and she started getting angry and swearing more.

She was still naked at this point, I said I was gay and I never fancied her, I just had sex with her because I thought it would be funny and that I found it hilarious I had sex with her when she thought I was straight. She got dressed and shouted verbal abuse at me. She demanded I paid for a taxi back to her hotel for her (while also calling me a rich, posh expletive), which I didn't do and I told her to walk. She told me to never speak to her again, she said I was a jerk (and ruder) and I shouldn't have lead her on. Throughout all this I was laughing at her and telling her how guys are so much better than her, that I hated the sex with her and that I'm smarter than her. She stormed out, knocking my stuff over as she went. I'm incredibly pleased with what I did and I'm glad I did it.