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addicted to couples

Hello everyone.

To day I will share a dark secret of mine.

I am so addicted to couples: Gf's and wives.

It is in simple words: sex with ladies while their partners know or enjoy watching.

Is this a bad thing?
How can I become normal, if it is not a normal thing?

I really feel bad. I do not know how to solve this complicated issue.

It is affecting me all the time. I feel that every bf enjoys letting me take part in their private lives or husbands, too.

I used to watch porn movies some of those were real vids recorded by husbands and bf's.

Then I had one experience after that I became worse and worse.

How to solve this?
Reply 1
Original post by Lonely2017
Hello everyone.

To day I will share a dark secret of mine.

I am so addicted to couples: Gf's and wives.

It is in simple words: sex with ladies while their partners know or enjoy watching.

Is this a bad thing?
How can I become normal, if it is not a normal thing?

I really feel bad. I do not know how to solve this complicated issue.

It is affecting me all the time. I feel that every bf enjoys letting me take part in their private lives or husbands, too.

I used to watch porn movies some of those were real vids recorded by husbands and bf's.

Then I had one experience after that I became worse and worse.

How to solve this?


Stop watching porn if you haven't done that yet, it sounds like it's having a negative effect on your life.

I think what you are describing is some sort of sexual fantasy. This would probably fade away over time but definitely cut the porn as that's probably what's reinforcing your desires.
When did TSR turn into a sexting forum? LOL
Your thinking is corrupt and you are in a state of lust. You have opened a door and stepped through. Your lusts, though exciting at first, will eventually disgust you but you won't be in control. You will make yourself promises and then break the very promises you made. Lust is an addiction and you will be driven to other lusts as you will need variety so as to be satisfied.

There is only one means of salvation.
You're doing it all wrong, buddy. It's all well and good dipping your toes in the water and trying different things out, but as soon as you find yourself becoming obsessed with something, nip it in the bud before it takes over your life.
Reply 5
I know but I tried it thru an adult site I had it for once with a lady while hers was watching.

Now it is really killing me I tasted that **** after tge fantasies..

I admit IT IS DESTROYING ME

I opened the door myself and after the only experience it is destroying me.

Is there a cur for this?
Reply 6
There's no cure.

Only discipline and changing your settings, or anything else that is tempting.

Occupy your thoughts in other topics.
Original post by Salma26
There's no cure.

Only discipline and changing your settings, or anything else that is tempting.

Occupy your thoughts in other topics.


Probably in the fact that Salma26 is so cute!!!
Reply 8
Original post by abhinair3004
Probably in the fact that Salma26 is so cute!!!


distracting yourself with another distraction is not really helpful, but, thanks.

I mean, other pursuits in life, something else that ignites your passion, it can be a hobby or an interest.
Original post by Salma26
distracting yourself with another distraction is not really helpful, but, thanks.

I mean, other pursuits in life, something else that ignites your passion, it can be a hobby or an interest.


I did get that hun, was just goofing around :biggrin:

But, hand to god , you're quite cute
Reply 10
Original post by abhinair3004
I did get that hun, was just goofing around :biggrin:

But, hand to god , you're quite cute


well.... thanks. o goofy one.
Original post by Salma26
well.... thanks. o goofy one.


You're very welcome , O Extremely Cute One! :biggrin:
addictions are easier to deal with the longer you go without it. Go cold turkey and get some really time consuming hobbies that occupy your brain.

Gym, video games, reading, researching topics you find interesting, whatever.

I was feeling pretty *****y until I started working on my own business projects so I can become self employed. Now that pretty much takes up all of my time and I have something to do. Number one problem is having a lot of time on your hands and nothing to do with it. You end up using that time doing self destructive things and becoming depressed.
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