Why dont girls talk to me/like me

Ok first of i'm sorry for being a miserable goot on Christmas but while i'm sat here by myself in my room there's some things i wanna get of my chest.

So i'm looking through my friends snapchat and about 90% are them with their GF enjoying their time together , makes me wonder to myself "why can't i be like that" i never had a girlfriend (but i understand that i'm only 17 and i still got life ahead of me) that is true but i don't wanna be alone for another couple of years in my life.

I don't understand why girls don't like talking to me (the ones i've been with at school) i messaged some people on snapchat a couple of days ago and they just flat out ignored me , there was this one girl who i had crush on for a couple of years and she seemed flirty with me , i asked her for her number yesterday and she ignored me , a little bit of me died inside.

Does anyone have tips or advice i can use here , much appreciated , thanks x

p.s i don't want a gf for sex or anything , i want someone i can make happy and have her feel comfortable to talk to me whenever she wants and so i can make her happy

You sound like a nice guy, just keep being yourself and you'll find someone

Just keep trying , or figure out why they don’t want to pursue a relationship with you (I.e you may not be their type but then again they may just want to be friends). But to be honest look for a girl that would accept you for who you are. Don’t change yourself for someone. If you find a girl you like, be flirty and funny (but not intense) and just outgoing and confident. One day you will find someone . Good luck! Xx

Work on yourself first. Get new hobbies, meet new people and get up your confidence.


You're 17, you don't have to worry about girls right now. You'll get more chances later on.

thank you but girls just use me for their own purposes

I'm sorry to hear that, because you really don't deserve it.

I'd suggest working on your confidence and self-esteem for a while before actively searching for a girlfriend, because that's ultimately the most important thing.

I hope you feel better about yourself soon and eventually find someone who is right for you.

Keep at it. Dating is hard work with so many blow outs. But with patience and tenacity success comes

thankyou , any tips on how i do that

I'm not the most self-confident person in the world, and I struggle with low self-esteem quite a bit but I'd say just try and compliment yourself more, focus more on positive things and surround yourself with people you care about/things you enjoy, and learn to appreciate/respect yourself more.

i was playing basketball at college but i'm not allowed in anymore cause i'm too bad

what UWS said.

work on improving yourself. if its your basketball, practice with your friends or on your own until you can play well

hit the gym, start reading books,

the more you improve the better chances you'll have of getting a girl