I suppose I just want some advice before I ruin it for myself. We’ve been together for a few months howeverthe more time I spend with him the more I realise our families are really different. I know it shouldn’t matter at all and I know he’d think I’m stupid to even worry about that and probably won’t see how we are that different but I suppose I just have a shell around me.
My parents arent struggling to make ends meeet, we are comfortable and do enjoy nice things as my parents work hard I isn’t feel as though he’s in another class to me. Our families hobbies are very different and just generally I worry I’m not good enough.I’m shy anyway and his parents are full on in terms of wanting to meet me and get to know me. I’ve grown up in a nice area and have been educated well. I plan to work hard and be successful and we aren’t both on the same wavelength. I live in an ex council house, as circumstantially it was best value for the money they had when my parents needed the space. We never got round to moving however it’s always been something that has bothered me, it just feels scruffy and open to judgement. I’m not materialistic at all it’s more I don’t want to open my family up to judgement if you will, because we’ve had it before from friends parents during my school years due to the nice area I live i. I know anybody who is a decent person will not care in the slightest but I still feel hung up about it. I can feel myself backing out over something as trivial as this because I’m trying to protect myself when I don’t need to. He cares a lot and would never intentionally upset me! Thanks in advance.