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(Female) Extra skin

As a virgin, I'm afraid that my boyfriend will be disgusted by how different my vagina is compared to most porn stars or girls in porn videos. Compared to many other girls who has a slit, I have extra skin down there. :frown:

My skin isn't tucked and shows that bump whenever I wear my underwear or swimsuits.

Will this be a huge turn off to guys?

Will this make him less attracted to me?

Reply 1

TSR George

First of all don't compare yourself to porn. Actors are picked for a reason just like models for a photoshoot. Everyone's vagina, labia ect look different. Some are innies, some are outies. And tbh as a male, it's really not something im bothered about. First of all if I love/like you and get to having sex, im having sex with you for a reason and, secondly, in the moment it's kind of the last thing you think about or even may just be half a second.

It doesn't cause you any issues otherwise rubbing on clothing, exercising ect?

Reply 2

unprinted

This is totally normal - some of the women you've seen in porn will have had completely unnecessary surgery to have bits of their labia chopped off.

It is very unlikely that anyone will complain (they'll be too busy going 'OMG, a real naked woman!') but if they do, tell them to lose about an inch from their scrotum.

Reply 3

JTfoxlove

Porn isn't real life. Normal people and normal peoples' genitalia does not look like porn stars.

(For the record there are lots of females reading this worrying that their boobs are: too big/small/uneven/droopy areoles too big/small/bumpy/'oddly' coloured - vaginas too tight/loose/dry/wet or that it smells like a vagina. Males are worrying that their penis is too small/large/bent - testicles too big/small/hairy/not hairy/high/low/ one is larger than the over - that they are not circumcised/uncircumcised. ETC, ETC, ETC.

Everyone is worrying that they are not perfect and are the odd ones out. You/We/I am not; we are all perfect. Don't worry about it you are perfect!)

Genitals are genitals - rule of thumb they shouldn't look better than your face.

Anyone that's lucky enough to be invited to the party should love every bit of you and if they don't - no invite to losers!

Love yourself and your body - you're perfect.

:smile: