Postponing course for a year to move out from parents
I am 25 doing a master's in maths I have 15 months out via mental health. I am living with my parents at the moment but spend most of my time at my boyfriend's who is 41. I'm not happy with life at the moment and don't feel like myself. I don't want to move in with my boyfriend because I know I'm young and I don't want to be tied down and I'm not ready for that level of commitment- im also thinking of breaking up with him. I want to experience living by myself for a bit. I was due to sit my exams in June but postponed to August because my mental health hasn't really improved, also I feel insecure and would have felt uncomfortable leaving my boyfriend alone for a month. This isn't a good enough reason to postpone my career, and believe me I know this, but I also know my sensitivity and frame of mind at the moment, and I probably would have broke down within the month.
Im also on the edge with money. As it stood in June, I had just about enough to get me through the exams. I am now in the situation I was last year, which I knew I would be ofc when I postponed in June, to study and work at the same time, which is a bit frustrating, just about having enough money to get out of the house go to the library and study, under pressure to raise enough before August whilst studying. ( Also around 500 down due to needing an abortion ) my studies also mean alot to me, work procedures make no sense to me often etc, to me it's a bit if truth, so I'd like to be fully there.
My parents are the invasive, over protective type, they don't seem to realise I'm 25 but 14. I have a strong personality coupled with intelligence and high sensitivity I'm never going to be happy there, that's why I've spent alot of time at my boyfriend's , but since I'm having my doubts about this relationship I feel the only way forward for me is solo.
Why now ? Since I've postponed in June I can't see thinks rapidly improving by August. I feel like if I get a full time job now, I can afford to moMove out, live by myself , and feel in control of my life, this is the only possibility of me maybe being happy that I can see right now. Unfortunately it would mean another year out of studies and my biggest concern here would be how this may affect PhD applications, having said that, I feel like I may have no choice, it feels like the right thing to do right now.