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Who has it tougher when it comes to pleasuring, women or men?

Do you think women have it tougher when it comes to pleasuring their man or do men have it tougher when it comes to pleasuring their girl
Original post by Anonymous
Do you think women have it tougher when it comes to pleasuring their man or do men have it tougher when it comes to pleasuring their girl


Depends on the person you're sleeping with, but generally I would say it's harder to please girls. Every girl likes very particular things and it's hard to tell what sometimes
almost certainly men please girls for the simple reason there's no clear indicator that they've had an orgasm
men because sucking **** a sport
women because they could fake an orgasm very easily
Women are harder to please. It takes women time to become aroused enough for penetrative sex and it takes longer for a woman to reach orgasm than men (if she does at all - most encounters, especially among young people, will end before a woman is actually satisfied).
erm. dunno? might be men because like...you gotta reach all up in there ygm. and some men can't. even though women consider complaining to their friends about faking orgasms as a bonding experience. so apparently even if the man doesnt satisfy her, she will stay, and ironically this makes the sex worse because women are self-assigned masochists who dont leave when they should and just complain.

but then it might be hard for women as well to please because men expect porn stars, even f she's a virgin or shy. aint right man. both genders are ****ed. @It's****ingWOODY@TheRealSquiddy @gjd800 the only other men on here who have had sex, so what do yous think? haha
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Original post by Bang Outta Order
erm. dunno? might be men because like...you gotta reach all up in there ygm. and some men can't. even though women consider complaining to their friends about faking orgasms as a bonding experience. so apparently even if the man doesnt satisfy her, she will stay, and ironically this makes the sex worse because women are self-assigned masochists who dont leave when they should and just complain.

but then it might be hard for women as well to please because men expect porn stars, even f she's a virgin or shy. aint right man. both genders are ****ed. @It's****ingWOODY@TheRealSquiddy @gjd800 the only other men on here who have had sex, so what do yous think? haha


JoshDarnit and HoldThisL claim they had sex before!
Original post by Bang Outta Order
women consider complaining to their friends about faking orgasms ... and ironically this makes the sex worse

this
Original post by CuriosityYay
JoshDarnit and HoldThisL claim they had sex before!

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Original post by HoldThisL
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bruh dont omit me, g!
@TheRealSquiddy i didnt tag ya for reps bruh!!! talk, what do u think?? geeezzzz..
Original post by Bang Outta Order
erm. dunno? might be men because like...you gotta reach all up in there ygm. and some men can't. even though women consider complaining to their friends about faking orgasms as a bonding experience. so apparently even if the man doesnt satisfy her, she will stay, and ironically this makes the sex worse because women are self-assigned masochists who dont leave when they should and just complain.

but then it might be hard for women as well to please because men expect porn stars, even f she's a virgin or shy. aint right man. both genders are ****ed. @It's****ingWOODY@TheRealSquiddy @gjd800 the only other men on here who have had sex, so what do yous think? haha

I find someone are just too particular imo, like "I want to you rub my clit clockwise for 23 seconds at 17 second intervals whilst licking my nipples vertically after eating a curry".

but TBH I find a lot of girls complain men are bad in bed when in fact we just CBA to put the effort in because the most exciting thing they wanna do is have their ass tapped gently.
Original post by Bang Outta Order
@TheRealSquiddy i didnt tag ya for reps bruh!!! talk, what do u think?? geeezzzz..


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Original post by TheRealSquiddy
I find someone are just too particular imo, like "I want to you rub my clit clockwise for 23 seconds at 17 second intervals whilst licking my nipples vertically after eating a curry".

but TBH I find a lot of girls complain men are bad in bed when in fact we just CBA to put the effort in because the most exciting thing they wanna do is have their ass tapped gently.

lool well yh you gotta hit dem spots, it's really not a problem usually and i find i go down first and exceed expectations just to not only get her warmed up but to raise the bar ygm lol so she pays me back when she goes down. if i bull **** it she's gonna bull **** it. so in that regard, it can be harder for men, trying to please her. women who arent pleased quietly accept it and passive aggressively treat you like rubbish afterwards, whilst men who arent pleased are still pleased because our **** is still gettin touched know what i mean lol or we cheat for straight sex supposedly, and women cheat for emotional connection. and in that regard, its easier for women, unless he cheats and it becomes harder to have sex. "i have to **** hm good and do whatever he wants or he'll leave me!" men dont have that pressure.
Original post by TheRealSquiddy
My g I was typing my response 🙃


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Guys.
Girls take longer to climax, usually don't tell guys what they most enjoy, often fake organisms first complain later and those into kink rarely tell the guy in advance.
Any guy that is deemed less than 7/10 risks being ditched at the speed of light and having his self esteem decimated with brutal mockery as to sexual prowess.
Then can face public ridicule by the girl and her entire female friendship group.
Original post by sinfonietta
Women are harder to please. It takes women time to become aroused enough for penetrative sex and it takes longer for a woman to reach orgasm than men (if she does at all - most encounters, especially among young people, will end before a woman is actually satisfied).


Definitely this. Reaching orgasm can be difficult for lots of women sadly. Especially as it does generally take longer which could cause them to give up trying and just fake it instead.

Original post by Bang Outta Order
women consider complaining to their friends about faking orgasms as a bonding experience. so apparently even if the man doesnt satisfy her, she will stay, and ironically this makes the sex worse because women are self-assigned masochists who dont leave when they should and just complain.


This is sad and all too true. I've never seen the appeal in faking an orgasm. It sets up unrealistic and unfair expectations on both parties if a guy thinks you can *** in 30 secs.
Original post by Precious Illusions
Definitely this. Reaching orgasm can be difficult for lots of women sadly. Especially as it does generally take longer which could cause them to give up trying and just fake it instead.



This is sad and all too true. I've never seen the appeal in faking an orgasm. It sets up unrealistic and unfair expectations on both parties if a guy thinks you can *** in 30 secs.

Im glad you agree but now you've just made me wonder if you verbally abuse or flat out leave your partners for missing "the spot" lol
Original post by Bang Outta Order
Im glad you agree but now you've just made me wonder if you verbally abuse or flat out leave your partners for missing "the spot" lol

I do both, obvs.

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Original post by Bang Outta Order
erm. dunno? might be men because like...you gotta reach all up in there ygm. and some men can't. even though women consider complaining to their friends about faking orgasms as a bonding experience. so apparently even if the man doesnt satisfy her, she will stay, and ironically this makes the sex worse because women are self-assigned masochists who dont leave when they should and just complain.

but then it might be hard for women as well to please because men expect porn stars, even f she's a virgin or shy. aint right man. both genders are ****ed. @It's****ingWOODY@TheRealSquiddy @gjd800 the only other men on here who have had sex, so what do yous think? haha

I 100% say it's harder for men. Like, not all women orgasm and some women do but it's hard to get her there without knowing her body really well. Whereas, with the extreme majority of guys, they're 100% gonna orgasm and ejaculate during sex, all the woman has to worry about is seeming interested.
Original post by It's****ingWOODY
I 100% say it's harder for men. Like, not all women orgasm and some women do but it's hard to get her there without knowing her body really well. Whereas, with the extreme majority of guys, they're 100% gonna orgasm and ejaculate during sex, all the woman has to worry about is seeming interested.

lol exactly plain and simple what I said to Squiddy, that men can come just by you having a hole hehehe. but to get a woman off its a ****ing craft. not hard to get her off :hubba:. just tougher as a gender in ratio is all.
just gotta put in more effort. some guys obvs take the piss and want her to be pornhub status though haha. but i think many men will settle for a ball tickle and some missionary :rofl:

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