Would you let your bf/husband watch you give birth?

Ikr, i'd let him cut the umbilical cord like my own father did.

No im not trying to be selfish. If he wants to see it knowing what will come then ill let him see everything ofcourse. I suppose the question i should have asked is what if he doesnt want to see me at my worst.

But the way you worded your question makes you selfish.

As I have said, he won't care if you are at your worst. He wants to see the baby being born.

Ofc! He better be holding my hand.

can't rep you rn but that's so true man, you need all the support u can get and having that special person there is the most important part

But the way you worded your question makes you selfish.

As I have said, he won't care if you are at your worst. He wants to see the baby being born.

...what's it to you? its not your baby.

It means nothing to me, it's called giving an opinion.

No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't want anyone to be there apart from the midwife or medical staff. I don't think that makes me selfish - there is nothing pleasant about a child coming out if a vagina, I don't see why people get so hyped up about it.

It means nothing to me, it's called giving an opinion.

it means something to you if you have an opinion on it. otherwise you're just attacking op for their preferences. let it go. what's it to you how they want to give birth?? just weird.

It is common advice to avoid holding a pregnant womans hand when giving birth as they have been known to crush/break mens hands sometimes when using the hand as support

Ok so you know how sometimes its natural for girls to literally **** themselves when they give birth I actually never want my husband to see that. Its not that I care if he sees all the other craziness going on down there, I would just be scared of that happening!! What do you think?

No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't want anyone to be there apart from the midwife or medical staff. I don't think that makes me selfish - there is nothing pleasant about a child coming out if a vagina, I don't see why people get so hyped up about it.

No no i mean girls literally poop themselves

it means something to you if you have an opinion on it. otherwise you're just attacking op for their preferences. let it go. what's it to you how they want to give birth?? just weird.

How often does that really happen? Some people give birth without pain relief and it's very calm.

I think it does tbh. It's your partner's baby too and for some people, seeing their child being born is a magical moment that they'd never, ever dream of missing out on. They've seen you naked, they had to in order to make the baby in the first place, and if they really want to be there to deny them that is a horrible thing to do.