What is the biggest red flag about you?

Original post by Bang Outta Order

Ur just an Aries. It is how you are and not your fault. Though you do seem about proud of it...

Not proud but no point being ashamed of it, either. it is what it is

Reply 41

MidgetFever

Original post by Bang Outta Order

What night out

Can't tell if you're joking or.. :lol:

Y'know, a night out.. drinking.

Reply 42

Bang Outta Order

Original post by MidgetFever

Can't tell if you're joking or.. :lol:

Y'know, a night out.. drinking.

...I didn't say "what's a night out?"

I am dubiously surprised that you go out and act wild is all

Reply 43

MidgetFever

Original post by Bang Outta Order

...I didn't say "what's a night out?"

I am dubiously surprised that you go out and act wild is all

Oh! Sorry I'm proper tired. :rofl:

Why is that so surprising? :tongue:

I’m SUPER insecure

Probs depression

I like to make jokes with others, cuz I wanna be funny, but I tend to often go too far and just piss people off instead. Even if I think I’m not going too far, or if I think it’s just a harmless joke, I still end up making them angry

Reply 47

Ciel.

Original post by FemaleinDress

Can be anything

I will say that I am not funny

nothing.

I guess bpd is a huge massive red flag to some people, i think i could be a good girlfriend despite that though so if they have that sort of prejudice then in some respects it is their loss

(am having an unusually self confident day lol)

Reply 49

It's****ingWOODY

I can be a bit of a ghost, sometimes. I just have days or even a week where I just cut people off for a bit, just feel like I need my own space, either from them or just people in general. I get annoyed with clingy people. One of the reasons I'm not in a relationship for now, cause if you're with someone it's not acceptable to not answer the phone to them just cause you can't be arsed :lol:

Reply 50

Anonymous #2

i think i'm a sociopath. not an evil one though, i would never kill anyone. but i honestly just don't care about people. i never really worried or loved anyone including family and friends and i've never really mourned anything, including a break up. literally nothing affects me, i'm so dead on the inside. i secretly get happy when i hear about people that i don't like who are struggling. but no one ever knows it, on the surface i'm soooo good at putting on one hell of an act, but on the inside i'm always laughing at their misery. yet people think i'm some sort of saint. its true - the REAL sociopaths, the true ones - they're the ones that people least suspect. i know for certain no one would ever suspect i was one, because they all like me so much because of all the fake emotion i always show. if only they knew... sometimes i wish they did.

Reply 51

Original post by gjd800

I can be a bit distant and dry, not very 'emotional'

Completely the opposite to me, then. (I can't resist an Oxford prospective who needs advice, or someone who is dating a crap person and needs me to tell them to kick the other person to the kerb). But you do make me laugh. .

Reply 52

Original post by MidgetFever

I'm that friend that doesn't know how to stop on a night out :lol:

Watch out, Sheffield!

Reply 53

Original post by Anonymous

Well i'm not gonna deny it, It was me, yes.

If you put someone on ignore then it's your Fault if they have to use Anon to speak to you as that's the only way you'll see it.

It was neccesary So I make no apologies at all, and also stand by what I said.

If Angry puts you on ignore, it means she doesn't want to speak to you. So don't speak to her. I have put two people on my ignore list, and it'll be a cold day in hell when I want to speak to either of them.

Reply 54

Original post by Anonymous

i think i'm a sociopath. not an evil one though, i would never kill anyone. but i honestly just don't care about people. i never really worried or loved anyone including family and friends and i've never really mourned anything, including a break up. literally nothing affects me, i'm so dead on the inside. i secretly get happy when i hear about people that i don't like who are struggling. but no one ever knows it, on the surface i'm soooo good at putting on one hell of an act, but on the inside i'm always laughing at their misery. yet people think i'm some sort of saint. its true - the REAL sociopaths, the true ones - they're the ones that people least suspect. i know for certain no one would ever suspect i was one, because they all like me so much because of all the fake emotion i always show. if only they knew... sometimes i wish they did.

My ex husband was exactly like this. I recognise everything you are saying.

Reply 55

Anonymous #3

Original post by UWS

Having a TSR account.

Everyone here who's not saying this is wrong.

Probably my second biggest red flag is that I don't like going out and meeting people, but maybe that's linked to the above...

Reply 56

I am a bit nervous of going out and socialising. Am a bit afraid of men, to be honest. It's just easier to stay home.

Reply 57

ANM775

Original post by Oxford Mum

If Angry puts you on ignore, it means she doesn't want to speak to you. So don't speak to her. I have put two people on my ignore list, and it'll be a cold day in hell when I want to speak to either of them.

It's a free country, i'll speak to whomever I want

her choice or not whether she chooses to speak back :h:

Reply 58

Original post by ANM775

It's a free country, i'll speak to whomever I want

her choice or not whether she chooses to speak back :h:

You are not giving her a choice if you are on anon, are you? If she doesn't want to speak to you, please respect that.

I am a big fan of , and will defend her in this, and most cases.

Reply 59