Can someone explain British men to me lol

It sounds like he has moved on, as his communication with you has dwindled. It happens when you are young ( and older too)! Do not let him keep you hanging on, or let him get to you. Try to meet someone else who really cares about you.

PS I wish someone would explain British men to me as well. I’m 56 and still do not understand them.

A British man who works in Paris is not typical of British men I would expect. He is able to speak a language other than English, for starters. I expect he just wanted sex and afterwards felt he had got what he wanted from this brief relationship.

I think you may need to binge watch all the Richard Curtis films featuring Hugh Grant, this will give you a mildly glamourised feeling for the British male (4Weds1Fune) for ex. (Tho' you should also take Estella Marie Thompson's counter-balancing point of view into account)

It's difficult with these 'long distance relationships' - I suspect that if you & he were closer (in distance terms) say within 3hr drive, then it'd work. Should you accidentally end up doing a Masters in paris, or better an MBA in Fontainebleau , then might get more sparks.

A very British male friend of mine (Timothy) met a very nice US lady (Nancy) at a party in Thoiry, (Ain, France) literally in front of me, and they married a couple of years later (it was in the NYT 'Style' section on July 15th, 1990) - they remained married for twenty-one years and had two kids. So sometimes....