Mum had an abortion

Just wondering do you think abortion is ever the okay option due to certain circumstances??

never acceptable.

Murder.

never acceptable.

What do you do if you found a close friend had one?

Even if someone was for example sexually assaulted or family issues happened ect?

as I already said, never acceptable.

depends, if they were glad they did it, we're no longer friends.

if they regret it and feel bad about it, I'd still be mad at them, but I'll get over it quickly and help them move on and not hang it over their head.

I’m guessing it will be the same reaction if this was your child in this case? I think you’ll find extremely difficult to find someone who has zero remorse after abortion.

I’m guessing it will be the same reaction if this was your child in this case? I think you’ll find extremely difficult to find someone who has zero remorse after abortion.

Fr abortion for people is usually the last resort I believe

How would you feel if your mum did this? And had your sibling's life ended? And therefore killed. Wouldn't you feel a member of your family is missing? Would you feel lucky that she didn't use her womb as an execution chamber for you? Would you thank your mum at least she spared your life, because you know having stable finance is what really counts. If she didn't have that you would have been given the saline wash or skull cracking treatment. That's just life.. or death, ahem sorry I mean "abortion"...no life or death involved when there's a developing human baby of course.

sounds like I did, mum makes a choice, I don't like it and and complain. pretty much the same thing isn't it?

No. You , in my opinion , you don"t have a right to an opinion on an abortion that is not yours. My view is more extreme view than yours!

My mum has actually done one before, yes I was around at the time. I don’t know about other people but my mum had to really struggle to come to that decision, I know she regrets it to this day. That said it was her choice to make and she made it. I don’t care much for my lost half sibling because I’d never met it or bonded with it. Just because I’m related to someone doesn’t mean I instantly have a bond with them, nor does it mean that I desire to have one. It doesn’t feel good to think “what would she have done if she was making this decision when she was pregnant with me” but I guess it doesn’t really matter since at the end of the day I’m here and those who never existed don’t have the opportunity or ability to wonder about the alternate ways their lives could have gone. I do think that many of the women who decide to have an abortion do think about the what ifs and quite possibly have some feeling of regret deep down inside. I still remember the day after where my mum was crying in my arms saying that she wonders if her baby in heaven hates her for ending it’s life before it was born.

That said you also have a right to an opinion just like how your mum has the right to have an abortion if she wants.

I am not some crazy pro-lifer, I don't think a zygote or even a developing unborn baby should have the same rights as a fully grown person. I just think abortion shouldn't be seen as as acceptable as it is and we shouldn't overlook the barbarity of the action, hiding behind clever euphemistic language. If we face up to what it really is, maybe less people will do it and will tough it out raising a child before they have got that promotion or the house they wanted. An abortion shouldn't be seen as another convenience for the already pampered western woman's lifestyle. A child born into "underprivilege" today in the UK will have a better life than every child born 200 years ago and every baby born in the majority of places in the world today.

It’s not. Abortion is healthcare.

That's not an honest description of the brutal killing of a small developing baby, that's a euphemism of a euphemism. You guys just keep worming yourselves around with your clever language and thought games to avoid the barbaric nature of the reality.