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I can’t orgasm?

I’m a guy

So I was a virgin and would’ve thought if I’d have sex I’d last a minute.

I’m 18 and went on my first ever date the other day, it went well and yesterday I went to hers.

We watched a films and cuddled we did some foreplay for about an hour, (rubbing against her).

The first time we did it I lasted 20mins but had to assist my self to finish.

And this morning I didn’t even feel close to an orgasm after multiple positions and about 40mins in the end because I was so exhausted I just faked it 😂 I made her orgasm twice tho

I masturbate often and never last over 10mins so why do I take so much longer with the real thing?

And I ain’t gay if u wondering
And the girl was gorgeous
You have death grip. Stop watching porn and stop masturbating for 4 weeks minimum and you should slowly regain the sensation back
Stop watching porn
Don’t watch any more porn and stop masturbating for 6 months as you’ve killed your nerves by masturbating
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Damn wish someone had warned me about “death grip” our NHS or sex eduction is dog **** why learn how to use a condom if u can’t even *** in the first place.
Original post by Anonymous
Damn wish someone had warned me about “death grip” our NHS or sex eduction is dog **** why learn how to use a condom if u can’t even *** in the first place.


Porn is a drug and masturbation is a drug wish you the best of luck
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
I’m a guy

So I was a virgin and would’ve thought if I’d have sex I’d last a minute.

I’m 18 and went on my first ever date the other day, it went well and yesterday I went to hers.

We watched a films and cuddled we did some foreplay for about an hour, (rubbing against her).

The first time we did it I lasted 20mins but had to assist my self to finish.

And this morning I didn’t even feel close to an orgasm after multiple positions and about 40mins in the end because I was so exhausted I just faked it 😂 I made her orgasm twice tho

I masturbate often and never last over 10mins so why do I take so much longer with the real thing?

And I ain’t gay if u wondering
And the girl was gorgeous


because you are doing the real thing with a nice person. Dont bother overthinking things. Relax. Don't fake it. Trust her. Be honest.
Guys find it much harder to have loads of orgasms And they have refractory periods after having an orgasm.
Original post by mgi
because you are doing the real thing with a nice person. Dont bother overthinking things. Relax. Don't fake it. Trust her. Be honest.
Guys find it much harder to have loads of orgasms And they have refractory periods after having an orgasm.


Most guys can actually orgasm multiple times if you know how to do it, I’m female and every guy I’ve been with could do it 3,4 times in a row. It’s all about the technique of the reviver as you should edge your guy and it’ll allow you to have multiple then once you’ve came if she doesn’t stop it usually makes you do it again then after the 3rd time it gets too sensitive they say
Stick a prostate massager up your arse. That’ll make you orgasm like crazy multiple times

imo prostate doesn’t mean you’re gay. Most straight guys use them
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
Most guys can actually orgasm multiple times if you know how to do it, I’m female and every guy I’ve been with could do it 3,4 times in a row. It’s all about the technique of the reviver as you should edge your guy and it’ll allow you to have multiple then once you’ve came if she doesn’t stop it usually makes you do it again then after the 3rd time it gets too sensitive they say

when you say orgasm, do you also mean he ejaculates lots of semen each time as well?
Original post by mgi
when you say orgasm, do you also mean he ejaculates lots of semen each time as well?


Yes lots and lots, IMO use plastic sheets over your mattress and it sprays everywhere after the 1st time it’s like it doubles in the amount each time it comes out like a volcano! It’s scary when as it’s unexpected especially when it gets in your eye
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
Yes lots and lots, IMO use plastic sheets over your mattress and it sprays everywhere after the 1st time it’s like it doubles in the amount each time it comes out like a volcano! It’s scary when as it’s unexpected especially when it gets in your eye

How many times does this happen? It is not possible that it continues to double each time.
Original post by mgi
How many times does this happen? It is not possible that it continues to double each time.


Oh aha try it with your partner or fwb - it’ll happen come out of him twice although the times after that it’ll be a dry orgasm which lasts a lot longer imo

After around 5 minutes after a dry one it can happen again but it takes a lot longer to orgasm which is why using your wand against him speeds it up

It’s actually surprisingly easy

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