Struggling to make friends at uni
Hi Everyone,
I'm struggling to make friends at uni, currently I'm the only guy in my tutorial class - and outnumbered 12-1, and it's very hard to make any friendship with any girl in the class. All my other classes are online.
I was talking to one from my class online and now it feels like I'm the only one making an effort, to be honest she just seems unfriendly really, not replying and generally being uninterested.
I asked her for coffee after class and it went down so badly - she literally scolded me and said "she didn't like me" and I just wanted to be friends, I never said it being a "date".
Any advice?
I'm struggling to make friends at uni, currently I'm the only guy in my tutorial class - and outnumbered 12-1, and it's very hard to make any friendship with any girl in the class. All my other classes are online.
I was talking to one from my class online and now it feels like I'm the only one making an effort, to be honest she just seems unfriendly really, not replying and generally being uninterested.
I asked her for coffee after class and it went down so badly - she literally scolded me and said "she didn't like me" and I just wanted to be friends, I never said it being a "date".
Any advice?
Generally university students are always to themselves so it won’t be that easy this year. Do you have any group projects this year?”
Find a club or society.
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