2 days ago I fought with my boyfriend, we’ve literally been going out for 3 months and only been able to meet twice because of the lockdown and me having to be at uni. 2 days ago was our first fight and I overreacted to something he said about an insta model and acted childish by ignoring him which he got mad at.
He forgave me and we moved on but I’ve been paranoid and on edge ever since, i feel like he’s lost interest in me but I’m not sure if it’s all paranoia. It’s harder not being able to see him because of lockdown which is making it harder, we were meant to meet this week but he had family issues (which I know to be true). What makes me think he’s lost interest is that he use to respond a lot faster and now takes hours, although he is busy sometimes. I feel like I’m driving myself insane with paranoia and stress, I’ve not felt hungry for the past few days and I feel nauseous all the time. I had to force myself to eat something today and I couldn’t finish dinner because I felt too nauseated. I’ve not been hungry AT all ever since that day and I don’t feel like it’s normal to feel like this after one fight. I’m not sure what’s wrong with me. I don’t want to bring it up to him because I feel like I’ll sound crazy, like I’m some needy girl that needs constant validation that he still likes me and wants to see me again. Maybe I need some kind of therapy as I really don’t feel it’s normal to be this consumed and paranoid in a “relationship” with someone I’ve only met twice. I’m 21 years old