don't like touching my vagina
im 17 and a virgin. I find it easy to climax from clitoral stimulation and do masturbate regularly. I also think I have a regular sex drive (if there's such thing). I hope this doesn't sound clumsy, but I have no sexual trauma.
I just don't like the thought of touching my vagina or it being penetrated. This means I find it so hard to relax and hate spreading my legs for things like oral. My boyfriend has fingered me but it was uncomfortable and not pleasurable. we have a healthy intimate relationship otherwise and he is understanding.
It also means I cannot seem to insert tampons and find it hard to relate to the idea of wanting to be penetrated. The thought of it just makes me cringe, but I feel like I should want it and am abnormal becuase of porn etc. I do appreciate that most women find PIV sex unfulfilling on its own, so it's just conditioning by the media etc lol.
just wondered if anyone had experienced similar? I see a lot about not being able to be penetrated, but not like this.
I just don't like the thought of touching my vagina or it being penetrated. This means I find it so hard to relax and hate spreading my legs for things like oral. My boyfriend has fingered me but it was uncomfortable and not pleasurable. we have a healthy intimate relationship otherwise and he is understanding.
It also means I cannot seem to insert tampons and find it hard to relate to the idea of wanting to be penetrated. The thought of it just makes me cringe, but I feel like I should want it and am abnormal becuase of porn etc. I do appreciate that most women find PIV sex unfulfilling on its own, so it's just conditioning by the media etc lol.
just wondered if anyone had experienced similar? I see a lot about not being able to be penetrated, but not like this.
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im 17 and a virgin. I find it easy to climax from clitoral stimulation and do masturbate regularly. I also think I have a regular sex drive (if there's such thing). I hope this doesn't sound clumsy, but I have no sexual trauma.
I just don't like the thought of touching my vagina or it being penetrated. This means I find it so hard to relax and hate spreading my legs for things like oral. My boyfriend has fingered me but it was uncomfortable and not pleasurable. we have a healthy intimate relationship otherwise and he is understanding.
It also means I cannot seem to insert tampons and find it hard to relate to the idea of wanting to be penetrated. The thought of it just makes me cringe, but I feel like I should want it and am abnormal becuase of porn etc. I do appreciate that most women find PIV sex unfulfilling on its own, so it's just conditioning by the media etc lol.
just wondered if anyone had experienced similar? I see a lot about not being able to be penetrated, but not like this.
I just don't like the thought of touching my vagina or it being penetrated. This means I find it so hard to relax and hate spreading my legs for things like oral. My boyfriend has fingered me but it was uncomfortable and not pleasurable. we have a healthy intimate relationship otherwise and he is understanding.
It also means I cannot seem to insert tampons and find it hard to relate to the idea of wanting to be penetrated. The thought of it just makes me cringe, but I feel like I should want it and am abnormal becuase of porn etc. I do appreciate that most women find PIV sex unfulfilling on its own, so it's just conditioning by the media etc lol.
just wondered if anyone had experienced similar? I see a lot about not being able to be penetrated, but not like this.
I get what you’re saying just wait and talk to your boyfriend about it/ ways he can help
Have the same struggle. Did anything ever help you?
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