Guys, would you date/make out with a girl without boobs?

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Basically, I'm a 23 year old girl and I always try to avoid any kind of male attention. The thing is I have big hips and small waist and no boobs (I wear a bra to hide this). I still have guys calling me pretty and trying to get with me but I feel uncomfortable because I'm scared once they find out I have no boobs they'll get freaked out and call me a weirdo or tell others. I have a medical condition where basically my breast muscles never developed so I'm totally flat.
This is the reason I don't date, or flirt or try to do anything. But my friends always try to set me up with others, apparently I'm "pretty".
As a guy, would you freak out if you found this info out? I can't exactly filter out the nice guys from the bad guys because this info is not something I share with anyone
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I don't think men care about boob size if your body is pretty.
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I don't think men care about boob size if your body is pretty.
well that's not true yes they don't care about the boob size but if it's basically non-existant that's a different story....(no offense)

but i think she might still find some that don't mind depends how pretty we are talking
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well that's not true yes they don't care about the boob size but if it's basically non-existant that's a different story....(no offense)

but i think she might still find some that don't mind depends how pretty we are talking
haha don't worry. I'm not offended

just wondering what guys would think.....
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Basically, I'm a 23 year old girl and I always try to avoid any kind of male attention. The thing is I have big hips and small waist and no boobs (I wear a bra to hide this). I still have guys calling me pretty and trying to get with me but I feel uncomfortable because I'm scared once they find out I have no boobs they'll get freaked out and call me a weirdo or tell others. I have a medical condition where basically my breast muscles never developed so I'm totally flat.
This is the reason I don't date, or flirt or try to do anything. But my friends always try to set me up with others, apparently I'm "pretty".
As a guy, would you freak out if you found this info out? I can't exactly filter out the nice guys from the bad guys because this info is not something I share with anyone
i mean- if the guy isn't interested in breasts
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tbh its not that deep if you have big b00bs or not , most guys prefer a big ass to b00bs but idk im a girl. And to get a big ass you can acc just do squats i guess.... Most guys just think about your face ngl. Plus im sure on tiktok theres some kind of trend if you have small b00bs then you can wear nicer tops like those cardigans (ive attached photos below)

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haha don't worry. I'm not offended

just wondering what guys would think.....
Ok ill tell you the situation the Face is the main thing then it's your ass but you don't have to be thicc thicc just a good ass then boobs we don't care that much about the size but when it's not there at all it will be kind of weird cuz it's unatural and they probs haven't seen anything like it especially considering yk boobs are something thay distinguish a female

imo you should not hide it and actually show that you don't have boobs and just talk to guys don't choose to reaveal it after the talking stage just so they know what they're getting into and just so you don't get hurt by any reactions
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i'll be honest boys dont really care about breasts these days, all my male friends say they prefer ass
and plus, even if a boy rejects you because of your physicalities, then he's trash anyways
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i'll be honest boys dont really care about breasts these days, all my male friends say they prefer ass
and plus, even if a boy rejects you because of your physicalities, then he's trash anyways
ok hold up one second that last part is invalid

everyone has their right to pick someone THEY find attractiverejecting someone for how they look is fine you can't be forced to dat someone your not attracted to it doesnt mean ur trash
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Don't worry.
Different looks attracted guys have a variety of preferred physical types and attraction dealbreakers.
Some guys do have a preference for lots of cleavage.
While others are more interested in face, personality, ambitions, values, shared interests and other body appearance elements.
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ok hold up one second that last part is invalid

everyone has their right to pick someone THEY find attractiverejecting someone for how they look is fine you can't be forced to dat someone your not attracted to it doesnt mean ur trash
i agree, if you don't like a girl physically, its totally fair to not take interest in her. but, if you show a girl interest and then suddenly reject her when you realise that she doesn't have boobs, thats unfair.
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i agree, if you don't like a girl physically, its totally fair to not take interest in her. but, if you show a girl interest and then suddenly reject her when you realise that she doesn't have boobs, thats unfair.
well actually what would be unfair is the fact that she hid that she didn't have boobs to begin with
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I mean, maybe man. Maybe. :dontknow:
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well actually what would be unfair is the fact that she hid that she didn't have boobs to begin with
most of the time, when you're genuinely interested in someone, their physicalities dont really matter and you find them attractive regardless.
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I thought a dude made this thread and I was getting very angry, but I'm really sorry that you feel insecure about this.
I can't offer any advice but I pray you find a way to love and feel secure in your own body, regardless of what anyone else thinks ❤️
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(Original post by noturhabibti)
most of the time, when you're genuinely interested in someone, their physicalities dont really matter and you find them attractive regardless.
ok but almost all the time u won't even approach a person unless they are attractive (wether to u thats physical or face but it would never be personality because the whole point of dating is getting to know the person)
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ok but almost all the time u won't even approach a person unless they are attractive (wether to u thats physical or face but it would never be personality because the whole point of dating is getting to know the person)
personally, i wouldn't date someone if i didn't know them fully
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(Original post by noturhabibti)
personally, i wouldn't date someone if i didn't know them fully
so you'd only date your friends?
also even if you date someone yk they'd still want you to have a good body no matter how good your personality is

there is many problems that would arise with that
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Most care about the face, the size matters to some, me not included.
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so you'd only date your friends?
also even if you date someone yk they'd still want you to have a good body no matter how good your personality is

there is many problems that would arise with that
yeah, i'd only date my friends
and getting to know someone and flirting with them comes during the talking stage
i feel like when you start to bond with someone, you automatically find them more attractive
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