Go to first unread
Back
to top
Guys, would you date/make out with a girl without boobs?
Watch
Announcements
Basically, I'm a 23 year old girl and I always try to avoid any kind of male attention. The thing is I have big hips and small waist and no boobs (I wear a bra to hide this). I still have guys calling me pretty and trying to get with me but I feel uncomfortable because I'm scared once they find out I have no boobs they'll get freaked out and call me a weirdo or tell others. I have a medical condition where basically my breast muscles never developed so I'm totally flat.
This is the reason I don't date, or flirt or try to do anything. But my friends always try to set me up with others, apparently I'm "pretty".
As a guy, would you freak out if you found this info out? I can't exactly filter out the nice guys from the bad guys because this info is not something I share with anyone
This is the reason I don't date, or flirt or try to do anything. But my friends always try to set me up with others, apparently I'm "pretty".
As a guy, would you freak out if you found this info out? I can't exactly filter out the nice guys from the bad guys because this info is not something I share with anyone
0
reply
Report
#3
(Original post by Anonymous)
I don't think men care about boob size if your body is pretty.
I don't think men care about boob size if your body is pretty.
but i think she might still find some that don't mind depends how pretty we are talking
1
reply
(Original post by the_pharaoh)
well that's not true yes they don't care about the boob size but if it's basically non-existant that's a different story....(no offense)
but i think she might still find some that don't mind depends how pretty we are talking
well that's not true yes they don't care about the boob size but if it's basically non-existant that's a different story....(no offense)
but i think she might still find some that don't mind depends how pretty we are talking
just wondering what guys would think.....
0
reply
Report
#5
(Original post by Anonymous)
Basically, I'm a 23 year old girl and I always try to avoid any kind of male attention. The thing is I have big hips and small waist and no boobs (I wear a bra to hide this). I still have guys calling me pretty and trying to get with me but I feel uncomfortable because I'm scared once they find out I have no boobs they'll get freaked out and call me a weirdo or tell others. I have a medical condition where basically my breast muscles never developed so I'm totally flat.
This is the reason I don't date, or flirt or try to do anything. But my friends always try to set me up with others, apparently I'm "pretty".
As a guy, would you freak out if you found this info out? I can't exactly filter out the nice guys from the bad guys because this info is not something I share with anyone
Basically, I'm a 23 year old girl and I always try to avoid any kind of male attention. The thing is I have big hips and small waist and no boobs (I wear a bra to hide this). I still have guys calling me pretty and trying to get with me but I feel uncomfortable because I'm scared once they find out I have no boobs they'll get freaked out and call me a weirdo or tell others. I have a medical condition where basically my breast muscles never developed so I'm totally flat.
This is the reason I don't date, or flirt or try to do anything. But my friends always try to set me up with others, apparently I'm "pretty".
As a guy, would you freak out if you found this info out? I can't exactly filter out the nice guys from the bad guys because this info is not something I share with anyone
0
reply
Report
#6
tbh its not that deep if you have big b00bs or not , most guys prefer a big ass to b00bs but idk im a girl. And to get a big ass you can acc just do squats i guess.... Most guys just think about your face ngl. Plus im sure on tiktok theres some kind of trend if you have small b00bs then you can wear nicer tops like those cardigans (ive attached photos below)
0
reply
Report
#7
(Original post by Anonymous)
haha don't worry. I'm not offended
just wondering what guys would think.....
haha don't worry. I'm not offended
just wondering what guys would think.....
imo you should not hide it and actually show that you don't have boobs and just talk to guys don't choose to reaveal it after the talking stage just so they know what they're getting into and just so you don't get hurt by any reactions
1
reply
Report
#8
i'll be honest boys dont really care about breasts these days, all my male friends say they prefer ass
and plus, even if a boy rejects you because of your physicalities, then he's trash anyways
and plus, even if a boy rejects you because of your physicalities, then he's trash anyways
1
reply
Report
#9
(Original post by noturhabibti)
i'll be honest boys dont really care about breasts these days, all my male friends say they prefer ass
and plus, even if a boy rejects you because of your physicalities, then he's trash anyways
i'll be honest boys dont really care about breasts these days, all my male friends say they prefer ass
and plus, even if a boy rejects you because of your physicalities, then he's trash anyways
everyone has their right to pick someone THEY find attractiverejecting someone for how they look is fine you can't be forced to dat someone your not attracted to it doesnt mean ur trash
2
reply
Report
#10
Don't worry.
Different looks attracted guys have a variety of preferred physical types and attraction dealbreakers.
Some guys do have a preference for lots of cleavage.
While others are more interested in face, personality, ambitions, values, shared interests and other body appearance elements.
Different looks attracted guys have a variety of preferred physical types and attraction dealbreakers.
Some guys do have a preference for lots of cleavage.
While others are more interested in face, personality, ambitions, values, shared interests and other body appearance elements.
0
reply
Report
#11
(Original post by the_pharaoh)
ok hold up one second that last part is invalid
everyone has their right to pick someone THEY find attractiverejecting someone for how they look is fine you can't be forced to dat someone your not attracted to it doesnt mean ur trash
ok hold up one second that last part is invalid
everyone has their right to pick someone THEY find attractiverejecting someone for how they look is fine you can't be forced to dat someone your not attracted to it doesnt mean ur trash
1
reply
Report
#12
(Original post by noturhabibti)
i agree, if you don't like a girl physically, its totally fair to not take interest in her. but, if you show a girl interest and then suddenly reject her when you realise that she doesn't have boobs, thats unfair.
i agree, if you don't like a girl physically, its totally fair to not take interest in her. but, if you show a girl interest and then suddenly reject her when you realise that she doesn't have boobs, thats unfair.
0
reply
Report
#14
(Original post by the_pharaoh)
well actually what would be unfair is the fact that she hid that she didn't have boobs to begin with
well actually what would be unfair is the fact that she hid that she didn't have boobs to begin with
0
reply
Report
#15
I thought a dude made this thread and I was getting very angry, but I'm really sorry that you feel insecure about this.
I can't offer any advice but I pray you find a way to love and feel secure in your own body, regardless of what anyone else thinks ❤️
I can't offer any advice but I pray you find a way to love and feel secure in your own body, regardless of what anyone else thinks ❤️
1
reply
Report
#16
(Original post by noturhabibti)
most of the time, when you're genuinely interested in someone, their physicalities dont really matter and you find them attractive regardless.
most of the time, when you're genuinely interested in someone, their physicalities dont really matter and you find them attractive regardless.
0
reply
Report
#17
(Original post by the_pharaoh)
ok but almost all the time u won't even approach a person unless they are attractive (wether to u thats physical or face but it would never be personality because the whole point of dating is getting to know the person)
ok but almost all the time u won't even approach a person unless they are attractive (wether to u thats physical or face but it would never be personality because the whole point of dating is getting to know the person)
0
reply
Report
#18
(Original post by noturhabibti)
personally, i wouldn't date someone if i didn't know them fully
personally, i wouldn't date someone if i didn't know them fully
also even if you date someone yk they'd still want you to have a good body no matter how good your personality is
there is many problems that would arise with that
0
reply
Report
#20
(Original post by the_pharaoh)
so you'd only date your friends?
also even if you date someone yk they'd still want you to have a good body no matter how good your personality is
there is many problems that would arise with that
so you'd only date your friends?
also even if you date someone yk they'd still want you to have a good body no matter how good your personality is
there is many problems that would arise with that
and getting to know someone and flirting with them comes during the talking stage
i feel like when you start to bond with someone, you automatically find them more attractive
0
reply
X
Quick Reply
