I’ve never felt enough for this girl

Original post by Luke_s.23

It’s not easy to explain. Basically, in the last 3 years, this girl was flirting with me. She’s always been beautiful and kind, and she even confessed her feelings to me... but i just acted like i didn't hear what she said. She's always been perfect for me, but i never felt good enough.

She's now dating another guy. We're still going out to eat and do stuff, but it's not like before. I really really like her. I always liked her, but never felt enough for her. It was the only time a girl showed interest towards me, and i wasted this opportunity like that. I'm having bad thoughts right now.

I should have told her "I really like you too" and not just "Sorry I didn't hear you"

you missed your oppurtunity youll have to wait until she breaks up with her bf

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Original post by Luke_s.23

It’s not easy to explain. Basically, in the last 3 years, this girl was flirting with me. She’s always been beautiful and kind, and she even confessed her feelings to me... but i just acted like i didn't hear what she said. She's always been perfect for me, but i never felt good enough.

She's now dating another guy. We're still going out to eat and do stuff, but it's not like before. I really really like her. I always liked her, but never felt enough for her. It was the only time a girl showed interest towards me, and i wasted this opportunity like that. I'm having bad thoughts right now.

I should have told her "I really like you too" and not just "Sorry I didn't hear you"

Original post by the_pharaoh

you missed your oppurtunity youll have to wait until she breaks up with her bf

If not until
Don’t wish bad things on ppl please 😂

(edited 3 years ago)

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Original post by Luke_s.23

It’s not easy to explain. Basically, in the last 3 years, this girl was flirting with me. She’s always been beautiful and kind, and she even confessed her feelings to me... but i just acted like i didn't hear what she said. She's always been perfect for me, but i never felt good enough.

She's now dating another guy. We're still going out to eat and do stuff, but it's not like before. I really really like her. I always liked her, but never felt enough for her. It was the only time a girl showed interest towards me, and i wasted this opportunity like that. I'm having bad thoughts right now.

I should have told her "I really like you too" and not just "Sorry I didn't hear you"

That’s a sticky one still
Ngl you missed your opportunity
Maybe she isn’t even the right person for you because if she’s so “perfect” and you don’t feel good enough for her then you guys aren’t compatible. The right person wouldn’t make you feel like that. You’ll find the right person at the right time.

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Original post by chelsea.uri

If not until
Don’t wish bad things on ppl please 😂

Ok Im assuming they are about 16-18 years old realistically they will break up like cmon what are the chances they last forever it could happen but very slim

(edited 3 years ago)

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Original post by the_pharaoh

Ok Im assuming they are about 16-18 years old realistically they will break up like cmon what are the chances they last forever it could happen but very slim

That’s true ngl
That’s why I don’t agree with ppl dating before they’re 18 or even 21. Maturity doesn’t come with age but age comes with maturity. As you get older you get more mature because you know more but just bcuz you’re old doesn’t necessarily mean you’re mature 😌

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Luke_s.23

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Original post by the_pharaoh

you missed your oppurtunity youll have to wait until she breaks up with her bf

yeah you’re right we’re both 17 yo and she’s dating this guy who’s 16 yo and every time i talk about other girls ( our classmates ) and simply about the friendly conversations i had with them, she starts to act like she’s irritated and all that stuff. If she was single, i’d probably confess my feeling to her, but that’s why i want to wait. If she’ll break up, i’ll try. If she won’t, i’ll just try to forget about this story

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Original post by chelsea.uri

That’s true ngl
That’s why I don’t agree with ppl dating before they’re 18 or even 21. Maturity doesn’t come with age but age comes with maturity. As you get older you get more mature because you know more but just bcuz you’re old doesn’t necessarily mean you’re mature 😌

yeah let’s say that i’ve always looked for a serious relationship so that’s why i never really felt enough ( now, i do ). I can’t see myself being in a relationship that ends, or that isn’t a serious one. Now, i know it’s almost impossible to find love at my age, but that’s my dream

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Original post by Luke_s.23

yeah let’s say that i’ve always looked for a serious relationship so that’s why i never really felt enough ( now, i do ). I can’t see myself being in a relationship that ends, or that isn’t a serious one. Now, i know it’s almost impossible to find love at my age, but that’s my dream

You not feeling “enough” is a matter of low self esteem it’s nothing to do with relationships. If you wanted a serious relationship if you’d said you’re standards are too high then I would’ve understood. Personally, if your mental health isn’t the best it can be I would recommend you getting into a relationship, speaking from experience.

How old are you?

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Original post by Luke_s.23

yeah you’re right we’re both 17 yo and she’s dating this guy who’s 16 yo and every time i talk about other girls ( our classmates ) and simply about the friendly conversations i had with them, she starts to act like she’s irritated and all that stuff. If she was single, i’d probably confess my feeling to her, but that’s why i want to wait. If she’ll break up, i’ll try. If she won’t, i’ll just try to forget about this story

As I said it's extremely unlikely that it will last like maybe 1 year at best so just wait

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Original post by chelsea.uri

That’s true ngl
That’s why I don’t agree with ppl dating before they’re 18 or even 21. Maturity doesn’t come with age but age comes with maturity. As you get older you get more mature because you know more but just bcuz you’re old doesn’t necessarily mean you’re mature 😌

Not only did you contradict yourself

but wth does that mean? 😂

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Original post by the_pharaoh

As I said it's extremely unlikely that it will last like maybe 1 year at best so just wait

I agree. People just get into relationships without being dateable.

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Original post by the_pharaoh

Not only did you contradict yourself

but wth does that mean? 😂

I didn’t which is why I developed my point and justified it unlike some people...
Read it again to understand what it means if you’re still confused ask Google or Siri 😌

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Original post by chelsea.uri

You not feeling “enough” is a matter of low self esteem it’s nothing to do with relationships. If you wanted a serious relationship if you’d said you’re standards are too high then I would’ve understood. Personally, if your mental health isn’t the best it can be I would recommend you getting into a relationship, speaking from experience.

How old are you?

i’ll be 18 in less than a month. My mental health isn’t the best at the moment but generally, apart from this teen drama situation, my life is pretty flat. I’ve not known anyone new since high school ( we finish high school at 19. All my classmates are the last people i knew ), so i’ve basically spent these last years in solitude/with very very few people. My psychiatrist put me in some groups with people that share my same interests, but due to this epidemic they’re all postponed. Anyway, when i’m with this girl, or with some of my classmates, i feel good, comfortable. I can make them laugh, but also be serious. I found out i can be entertaining, but at the same time i’ve never got anyone to talk with. My self esteem as always been low because i never felt enough for dating or that kind of things. Everyone around me is dating and if i’m not then there’s something wrong with me ( i don’t look for a superficial relationship, but i got to admit they can raise your self esteem )

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Original post by Luke_s.23

i’ll be 18 in less than a month. My mental health isn’t the best at the moment but generally, apart from this teen drama situation, my life is pretty flat. I’ve not known anyone new since high school ( we finish high school at 19. All my classmates are the last people i knew ), so i’ve basically spent these last years in solitude/with very very few people. My psychiatrist put me in some groups with people that share my same interests, but due to this epidemic they’re all postponed. Anyway, when i’m with this girl, or with some of my classmates, i feel good, comfortable. I can make them laugh, but also be serious. I found out i can be entertaining, but at the same time i’ve never got anyone to talk with. My self esteem as always been low because i never felt enough for dating or that kind of things. Everyone around me is dating and if i’m not then there’s something wrong with me ( i don’t look for a superficial relationship, but i got to admit they can raise your self esteem )

Woah that’s a lot of words

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Original post by chelsea.uri

I didn’t which is why I developed my point and justified it unlike some people...
Read it again to understand what it means if you’re still confused ask Google or Siri 😌

No thats not how it works u said with maturity comes age so if Im mature but Im 15 does that mean Im actually 20?

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