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Doctors don't seem to take my painful periods seriously?!

I've suffered with period pain since I was 12 and it's been gradually getting worse to the point where I'm crying on the bathroom floor, vomiting in pain and can't stand up because the cramps in my legs are so bad. I've been to the doctors several times but as you rarely get a same day appointment at the drs, they've never actually seen me when I'm having them (and to be fair I'm not sure I COULD get to the doctors, I can't even get downstairs). Sounds dramatic but honestly I've broken bones before and my periods are still the worst pain I've ever experienced. My mum said when she had periods they were the same and she's given birth to 2 kids and her periods were as bad as labour.

I've been to the doctors several times and described my pain (cramps that go from my ribs to my feet, concentrated in my lower abdomen and inner thighs with sharp pains in my lower abdomen, it's affecting my work because I have to phone in sick) and they have given me some painkillers (mefanamic acid) but it does absolutely nothing, I've even taken codeine and it makes me lovely and relaxed but doesn't stop the pain. When I spoke to a doctor he joked 'maybe have baby, many women find their periods ease after having children'.....????
I don't have the symptoms of polycystic ovaries so after they decided it wasn't that I'm not getting much help....how do I get them to take me seriously?!
I don’t know how old you are but even if you’re 17/18 it can help you to be taken seriously if you go to the doctors with one of your parents. Keep a diary/calendar of all the specific symptoms you have to show the doctor. If you haven’t already tell the doctor the pain killers didn’t work so they can see how bad it is.

I’ve never experienced this but I have friends who have, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this and I hope it can be treated and it gets better!
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Original post by Hellllpppp
I don’t know how old you are but even if you’re 17/18 it can help you to be taken seriously if you go to the doctors with one of your parents. Keep a diary/calendar of all the specific symptoms you have to show the doctor. If you haven’t already tell the doctor the pain killers didn’t work so they can see how bad it is.

I’ve never experienced this but I have friends who have, I’m so sorry you have to deal with this and I hope it can be treated and it gets better!

I'm 24 so this has been going on for 12 years! My mum went with me when I was younger to the doctors but it didn't have any effect
They’ve already said they don’t work tho
Original post by Anonymous
I've suffered with period pain since I was 12 and it's been gradually getting worse to the point where I'm crying on the bathroom floor, vomiting in pain and can't stand up because the cramps in my legs are so bad. I've been to the doctors several times but as you rarely get a same day appointment at the drs, they've never actually seen me when I'm having them (and to be fair I'm not sure I COULD get to the doctors, I can't even get downstairs). Sounds dramatic but honestly I've broken bones before and my periods are still the worst pain I've ever experienced. My mum said when she had periods they were the same and she's given birth to 2 kids and her periods were as bad as labour.

I've been to the doctors several times and described my pain (cramps that go from my ribs to my feet, concentrated in my lower abdomen and inner thighs with sharp pains in my lower abdomen, it's affecting my work because I have to phone in sick) and they have given me some painkillers (mefanamic acid) but it does absolutely nothing, I've even taken codeine and it makes me lovely and relaxed but doesn't stop the pain. When I spoke to a doctor he joked 'maybe have baby, many women find their periods ease after having children'.....????
I don't have the symptoms of polycystic ovaries so after they decided it wasn't that I'm not getting much help....how do I get them to take me seriously?!

if they refuse to treat you, ask them to put it on paper that they've refused treatment. If anything happens to you, it's on them. It'll get them to get moving.
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Original post by Anonymous
I've suffered with period pain since I was 12 and it's been gradually getting worse to the point where I'm crying on the bathroom floor, vomiting in pain and can't stand up because the cramps in my legs are so bad. I've been to the doctors several times but as you rarely get a same day appointment at the drs, they've never actually seen me when I'm having them (and to be fair I'm not sure I COULD get to the doctors, I can't even get downstairs). Sounds dramatic but honestly I've broken bones before and my periods are still the worst pain I've ever experienced. My mum said when she had periods they were the same and she's given birth to 2 kids and her periods were as bad as labour.

I've been to the doctors several times and described my pain (cramps that go from my ribs to my feet, concentrated in my lower abdomen and inner thighs with sharp pains in my lower abdomen, it's affecting my work because I have to phone in sick) and they have given me some painkillers (mefanamic acid) but it does absolutely nothing, I've even taken codeine and it makes me lovely and relaxed but doesn't stop the pain. When I spoke to a doctor he joked 'maybe have baby, many women find their periods ease after having children'.....????
I don't have the symptoms of polycystic ovaries so after they decided it wasn't that I'm not getting much help....how do I get them to take me seriously?!

Some GPs are a joke

Have you tried requesting another GP at the same surgery or something
I can’t believe they are not taking you seriously. Painful periods like you’ve described could be attributed to fibroids/endometriosis.
Request a referral to see a specialist.
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Original post by Nadia-J
Some GPs are a joke

Have you tried requesting another GP at the same surgery or something
I can’t believe they are not taking you seriously. Painful periods like you’ve described could be attributed to fibroids/endometriosis.

This was my thought! I had an ultrasound a couple of years ago which they ruled out PCOS and then that was that, they stopped looking at other options. I've asked if I could have blood tests to see if there's anything weird going on with my hormones, brought up endometriosis but I've not gotten anywhere with it :/ I think the problem may be that I don't have one GP, just the practice and every time I go I see a different doctor so it's like going back to square one
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Original post by Anonymous
This was my thought! I had an ultrasound a couple of years ago which they ruled out PCOS and then that was that, they stopped looking at other options. I've asked if I could have blood tests to see if there's anything weird going on with my hormones, brought up endometriosis but I've not gotten anywhere with it :/ I think the problem may be that I don't have one GP, just the practice and every time I go I see a different doctor so it's like going back to square one

That’s very frustrating. Did they go ahead with the blood test?
You should stick to one GP as they would know what has been done and what the next steps should be as opposed to seeing different GPs. Sometimes GPs are really busy and you have to chase them up otherwise they just leave you hanging.
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Original post by Anonymous
I've suffered with period pain since I was 12 and it's been gradually getting worse to the point where I'm crying on the bathroom floor, vomiting in pain and can't stand up because the cramps in my legs are so bad. I've been to the doctors several times but as you rarely get a same day appointment at the drs, they've never actually seen me when I'm having them (and to be fair I'm not sure I COULD get to the doctors, I can't even get downstairs). Sounds dramatic but honestly I've broken bones before and my periods are still the worst pain I've ever experienced. My mum said when she had periods they were the same and she's given birth to 2 kids and her periods were as bad as labour.

I've been to the doctors several times and described my pain (cramps that go from my ribs to my feet, concentrated in my lower abdomen and inner thighs with sharp pains in my lower abdomen, it's affecting my work because I have to phone in sick) and they have given me some painkillers (mefanamic acid) but it does absolutely nothing, I've even taken codeine and it makes me lovely and relaxed but doesn't stop the pain. When I spoke to a doctor he joked 'maybe have baby, many women find their periods ease after having children'.....????
I don't have the symptoms of polycystic ovaries so after they decided it wasn't that I'm not getting much help....how do I get them to take me seriously?!


Have you been able to discuss with them whether oral contraception would be suitable for you?

There is a good chance that this would help; one other benefit of taking the pill is that you can take packs back to back, so you could give yourself a block of weeks when you don't have your 'period' at all.
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Also i know this is a bit erm and generic but how is your diet and exercise? I used to hate that kind of advice but I have the same problem as you (with random frequent fainting due to cramps as well) and I found that when I get more steps into my day/more exercise and eat less salt and more veggies, there are now some periods where I don't get any cramps at all, or very little to the point where I don't need painkillers. This was huge to me since I've been struggling like you ever since I got it. Might not work for everyone and I didn't think it would work for me, but damn.
I was put on tranexamic acid for heavy periods which has also really helped reduced my pain. If you bleed particularly heavily you could seek that out as an option (there is another one too that I can't remember the name of).
Original post by Kerzen
Have you been able to discuss with them whether oral contraception would be suitable for you?

There is a good chance that this would help; one other benefit of taking the pill is that you can take packs back to back, so you could give yourself a block of weeks when you don't have your 'period' at all.


I've got a condition that puts me at risk of stroke so the combined contraceptive pill isn't an option for me- I can't take anything with oestrogren. I've been on other pills before (currently not on one) but they've not stopped my periods. I've heard the injection stops peoples periods, i'm not sure what's in it though?
Original post by Anonymous
I've got a condition that puts me at risk of stroke so the combined contraceptive pill isn't an option for me- I can't take anything with oestrogren. I've been on other pills before (currently not on one) but they've not stopped my periods. I've heard the injection stops peoples periods, i'm not sure what's in it though?

The injection contains progestogen (i.e. synthetic progesterone)

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