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First time for a guy

Bit of a different one. Context I’m a girl dating a guy and he has no sexual experience. I didn’t realise this till recently and I can come across as quite forward, so I don’t want to scare him. I’m going to have to help the first time around and obviously I don’t have a guys perspective on it all but also don’t want to come across as patronising. Guys from your point of view is there any do’s or things to avoid to make it easier for him? Obviously trying to avoid being explicit here but you get the idea.
Be forward. If he's inexperienced, there's a reason. It might be nervouness, in which case foreplay is a big thing.(Which you may have to initiate.)
Don't play coy because he may just be clueless about sex. Be forward and honest.
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It’s not rocket science, just be enthusiastic and encouraging, he’ll figure it out

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