I don’t feel attractive in clubs

I mean, how are the guys meant to know that you’re gay?
Would be a bit awkward if a guy came up to you and complimented you if you were straight, probably why guys don’t in comparison to girls.

Hey there! I totally understand your frustration with always having to make the first move. It can be exhausting, I get it. Here's a suggestion: why not try hitting up some LGBTQ+ clubs or bars? These places tend to have a more inclusive vibe and attract folks who are more likely to approach you. It's a great way to meet people who share your interests and might be more confident in making the first move. Give it a shot and see if it makes a difference. Good luck and have a blast exploring the LGBTQ+ scene!