did he name his daughter after me?

So, there is this guy that I used to know when I was a teenager. We both really liked each other, and I remember how we both used to say how we never felt about anyone as we felt about each other. I guess, you could say he was my right person, wrong time. We liked each other, but it was impossible for us to get together so we separated our ways. Through his sister, I found out that even years after we separated he talked about me in a positive way and held me dearly in his heart. Earlier this year, he had a daughter and she has the same name as me. Is it possible that a man names his daughter after a former crush/girl that he almost ended up dating?

Please, spare me rude comments. I'm just asking because judging by his sister's words he didn't get over me even after 9 years.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

That might be a reason but if your name is very common it is mostly likely just because it was a common name. As he probably had to choose this name with the partner he is with so it is more likely that they choose the name

Reply 2

taylor2317

Life & Style Forum Helper

16

It is possible, because as you said his sister believes that he thought very highly of you years after...

Reply 3

Admit-One

Universities Forum Helper

No.

Original post by Admit-One

No.

I love the flat out "No". :biggrin:

As Anonymous #2 has reiterated if your name is a common name, then it's probably not a big deal, you haven't revealed your name, so God only knows if your ex named his daughter after you, but considering he had a child with someone else, it probably isn't about you.

Reply 5

Notnek

21

If your name is Wilhelmina or Chrysanthemum then I’d be concerned.

Reply 6

Jodasauras

3

Bull there's never a wrong time to get together unless one of you was already taken

He may have always liked the name. Or perhaps his partner suggested it. It is most likely to have just been one of the few names they both could agree on.

I personally intend to actively not name a child after an ex-girlfriend (or crush). I've dated four Kirsty's and two Erin's, so of course my partner has blacklisted those. :lol:

(edited 11 months ago)

Reply 8

EllieDaysx

13

Original post by Admit-One

No.

That made me laugh
But depends on how common her name is

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

So, there is this guy that I used to know when I was a teenager. We both really liked each other, and I remember how we both used to say how we never felt about anyone as we felt about each other. I guess, you could say he was my right person, wrong time. We liked each other, but it was impossible for us to get together so we separated our ways. Through his sister, I found out that even years after we separated he talked about me in a positive way and held me dearly in his heart. Earlier this year, he had a daughter and she has the same name as me. Is it possible that a man names his daughter after a former crush/girl that he almost ended up dating?

Please, spare me rude comments. I'm just asking because judging by his sister's words he didn't get over me even after 9 years.

guys never get over girls, girls jus dont understand that

Reply 10

Makro

15

Original post by Jodasauras

Bull there's never a wrong time to get together unless one of you was already taken

But he is already taken. He's just had a daughter with someone.

Reply 11

Jodasauras

3

Original post by Makro

But he is already taken. He's just had a daughter with someone.

But was he taken back at the time she had feelings for him

Reply 12

Makro

15

Original post by Jodasauras

But was he taken back at the time she had feelings for him

How is that relevant if he is no longer available? he has a partner and a baby now. They are a family.

Reply 13

Jodasauras

3

Original post by Makro

How is that relevant if he is no longer available? he has a partner and a baby now. They are a family.

I'm just saying she should have had the balls to make a move for him back then

Reply 14

londonmyst

19

Maybe.
Alternatively it could have been his partner's choice of name, a very popular name that he likes or a few of his relatives have.

Reply 15

Makro

15

Original post by Jodasauras

I'm just saying she should have had the balls to make a move for him back then

But that's not at all what you said. What you said was "Bull there's never a wrong time to get together unless one of you was already taken" implying there is still a chance they could get back together which is just false hope.

did he name his daughter after me?

Quick Reply

Related discussions

Latest

Trending

Trending

Articles for you