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Have you seen them show empathy towards other people?
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Have seen them show empathy specifically towards men, maybe even their past exes?
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Do they show that they're able to take responsibility for past mistakes?
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Do they have their own career going (far less likely that they'll be interested in your money, if they already have their own)?
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Do they generally behave in a trustworthy manner? Or do they hold information back from either you, their friends, or family? Do they act cagey or withdrawn about some aspects of their past?
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What sort of relationship do they have with their family? Evidence of bad past relationships, coupled with an inability to take any responsibility as an adult, usually means her future relationships will be just as sh*t. Whereas if she has a good relationship with her family, she's a much lower flight risk for example.
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Potentially as well... how many exes? Yep, this topic gets controversial with all the feminists who like to pretend these things "don't matter" (which is a lie). Women who relationship hop from one to another, don't make reliable partners by definition. And obviously that is a risk if you have a house in your name with no mortgage. You should at least want to know the real reasons why she moved from one guy to the next so often. If she is acting cagey or dismissive with those reasons, dump her.
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And do they lie or withhold information about their past relationships.
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Put the house in someone else's name, or maybe a trust (I don't know)
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Sign a formal rent agreement with her
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Prenup
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