This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- I watch lesbian porn but I’m straight
- I'm not gay but sometimes I get off to gay porn?
- I’m straight but only watch lesbian porn
- do lesbian girls value height as much as straight girls do?
- why do i watch gay male porn even though im a lesbian women??????????????????
- feel absolutely overwhelmed speaking to girls
- Do you think she is lesbian?
- Webcam addiction
- Have a gf but not sure if I’m gay or not
- Struggle with my sexual orientation
- Intrusive thoughts.
- Any other straight women who experimented with same sex
- Can a camp man be straight?
- LGBT+ Chat XIII
- I have a BF... but I'm starting to fancy women?
- struggling with my sexuality as i grow up
- Lesbian
- Confused about my looks
- LGBTQ+ Q and A Thread
- Watched straight and gay porn
A straight girl watching lesbian p*rn? Am I in denial?
I do think that I’m straight but I think everyone around me, especially bi girls are making me think I may be bi curious? I occasionally watch lesbian porn. I do think women are beautiful but I sometimes watch it bc it is very arousing for me to see a woman being pleased as she needs to be pleased. A lot of straight porn is very much focused on the guys pleasure and violence. However, I have found some very good videos of homemade straight porn that I’ve really liked.. my question is am I in denial if I sometimes watch lesbian porn?
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
Not denial, you sound curious. Who doesn't like girl on girl action?
Honestly I’m exactly the same as you!!
I watch lesbian porn purely because it focuses on the woman’s pleasure - unlike straight porn which is literally just backshots and violence for the man’s pleasure.
I never imagine a girl when I watch lesbian porn. I imagine a guy instead. I feel like if there was porn that primarily focuses on the woman’s pleasure by a man, I would TOTALLY watch that instead, but such things barely exist lol
I know im straight, couldn’t imagine myself being with someone other than a man.
I don’t think I’d ever have sex with a woman, I’m 99% sure
I watch lesbian porn purely because it focuses on the woman’s pleasure - unlike straight porn which is literally just backshots and violence for the man’s pleasure.
I never imagine a girl when I watch lesbian porn. I imagine a guy instead. I feel like if there was porn that primarily focuses on the woman’s pleasure by a man, I would TOTALLY watch that instead, but such things barely exist lol
I know im straight, couldn’t imagine myself being with someone other than a man.
I don’t think I’d ever have sex with a woman, I’m 99% sure
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly I’m exactly the same as you!!
I watch lesbian porn purely because it focuses on the woman’s pleasure - unlike straight porn which is literally just backshots and violence for the man’s pleasure.
I never imagine a girl when I watch lesbian porn. I imagine a guy instead. I feel like if there was porn that primarily focuses on the woman’s pleasure by a man, I would TOTALLY watch that instead, but such things barely exist lol
I know im straight, couldn’t imagine myself being with someone other than a man.
I don’t think I’d ever have sex with a woman, I’m 99% sure
I watch lesbian porn purely because it focuses on the woman’s pleasure - unlike straight porn which is literally just backshots and violence for the man’s pleasure.
I never imagine a girl when I watch lesbian porn. I imagine a guy instead. I feel like if there was porn that primarily focuses on the woman’s pleasure by a man, I would TOTALLY watch that instead, but such things barely exist lol
I know im straight, couldn’t imagine myself being with someone other than a man.
I don’t think I’d ever have sex with a woman, I’m 99% sure
Yeah exactly.. to be honest, I don’t really imagine anything when I watch it. I just like the actual acts. But yeah it just makes feel as though why does it arouse me?? I have OCD so I’ll probably overthinking but I think I’ll have to stop watching it :/
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah exactly.. to be honest, I don’t really imagine anything when I watch it. I just like the actual acts. But yeah it just makes feel as though why does it arouse me?? I have OCD so I’ll probably overthinking but I think I’ll have to stop watching it :/
Oh it arouses me too 100%.
i get wet and everything. i think you get aroused because you feel and think about the same actions upon you.
I’m assuming you watch stuff that men are also capable of doing? You know, handjobs and oral.
i feel like if you are getting aroused due to actions that only females can do between each other, then perhaps you are bi?
Original post by Anonymous
Oh it arouses me too 100%.
i get wet and everything. i think you get aroused because you feel and think about the same actions upon you.
I’m assuming you watch stuff that men are also capable of doing? You know, handjobs and oral.
i feel like if you are getting aroused due to actions that only females can do between each other, then perhaps you are bi
i get wet and everything. i think you get aroused because you feel and think about the same actions upon you.
I’m assuming you watch stuff that men are also capable of doing? You know, handjobs and oral.
i feel like if you are getting aroused due to actions that only females can do between each other, then perhaps you are bi
Yes you’re right. When watching any porn, especially lesbian, I’m wanting a guy to perform the acts… I think it was something I never realised before…
bc most straight porn has barely any foreplay in it…. However I’ve found some good straight videos as well.
I don’t feel the need to sleep with or have those actions done on me by a female.. and every song sexual fantasy I’ve had has been with a man…
so I do feel that I’m straight..
lesbian porn is weird bc I find it disgusting but the acts are the acts that women would like done to them and of course the women are beautiful but I would just not like to be with one 😂😭
If you don’t find women sexually attractive and don’t want to have sex with them then you’re not bi.
Original post by Sorcerer of Old
If you don’t find women sexually attractive and don’t want to have sex with them then you’re not bi.
Finding them sexually attractive means wanting to sleep why then right? If so, then no I don’t find them sexually affective but I do think women are beautiful.
Original post by Anonymous
Finding them sexually attractive means wanting to sleep why then right? If so, then no I don’t find them sexually affective but I do think women are beautiful.
Finding someone beautiful and sexually attractive are two very different things. So if you don’t want to have sex with women then you’re still straight.
Well I'm a straight guy, but I only like lesbian porn. It's very rare for me to watch B/G stuff... because I feel I've nothing in common with the guys typically featured and, as you say, I don't like the way it seems to be getting more and more extreme.
Maybe you can try looking for female friendly B/G porn. There's quite a bit of it out there (remember peoples tastes in porn vary as much as their tastes in music or food). If you look for things like femdom, or CFNM (clothed female naked male), they tend to be things more geared towards females. There are also some brands that specialise in BG, but more from a making love perspective (I'll try and find the names of them, if you're interested).
Maybe you can try looking for female friendly B/G porn. There's quite a bit of it out there (remember peoples tastes in porn vary as much as their tastes in music or food). If you look for things like femdom, or CFNM (clothed female naked male), they tend to be things more geared towards females. There are also some brands that specialise in BG, but more from a making love perspective (I'll try and find the names of them, if you're interested).
Original post by Old Skool Freak
Well I'm a straight guy, but I only like lesbian porn. It's very rare for me to watch B/G stuff... because I feel I've nothing in common with the guys typically featured and, as you say, I don't like the way it seems to be getting more and more extreme.
Maybe you can try looking for female friendly B/G porn. There's quite a bit of it out there (remember peoples tastes in porn vary as much as their tastes in music or food). If you look for things like femdom, or CFNM (clothed female naked male), they tend to be things more geared towards females. There are also some brands that specialise in BG, but more from a making love perspective (I'll try and find the names of them, if you're interested).
Maybe you can try looking for female friendly B/G porn. There's quite a bit of it out there (remember peoples tastes in porn vary as much as their tastes in music or food). If you look for things like femdom, or CFNM (clothed female naked male), they tend to be things more geared towards females. There are also some brands that specialise in BG, but more from a making love perspective (I'll try and find the names of them, if you're interested).
Thank you
not a lot of men understand where I’m coming from. It seems that everyone wants to try and force me to be a sexuality that doesn’t align with me.Original post by Anonymous
I do think that I’m straight but I think everyone around me, especially bi girls are making me think I may be bi curious? I occasionally watch lesbian porn. I do think women are beautiful but I sometimes watch it bc it is very arousing for me to see a woman being pleased as she needs to be pleased. A lot of straight porn is very much focused on the guys pleasure and violence. However, I have found some very good videos of homemade straight porn that I’ve really liked.. my question is am I in denial if I sometimes watch lesbian porn?
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
I feel similarly. I've actually experimented but I've come to the conclusion that I would not date a woman or have any further sexual relations with women. I also had friends telling me I was bi because I'd experimented, but I didn't see myself as bi purely because I don't want any further relations with women in future. I experimented, it wasn't for me, and I didn't like people labelling me as something I didn't see myself as being.
I still occasionally get drawn to it for the same reasons as you; you know both women are actually enjoying themselves and being pleasured. They know how to pleasure themselves and the other woman and you can almost feel what they're feeling as you're a woman too. Straight porn is full of women in pain, being mistreated and their needs being ignored, and 80% not actually climaxing, so it's usually a big turn off for women. Plus they're usually sleeping with men who are physically unattractive (or are often completely out of shot), whilst the women tend to be attractive and always focused on, so it's understandable to be more drawn to women in porn. It's enjoyable for men, but not for women. There are categories for women which are a little bit better but honestly, the problem lies within the porn industry, not with you.
Original post by Anonymous #1
I do think that I’m straight but I think everyone around me, especially bi girls are making me think I may be bi curious? I occasionally watch lesbian porn. I do think women are beautiful but I sometimes watch it bc it is very arousing for me to see a woman being pleased as she needs to be pleased. A lot of straight porn is very much focused on the guys pleasure and violence. However, I have found some very good videos of homemade straight porn that I’ve really liked.. my question is am I in denial if I sometimes watch lesbian porn?
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
I don't want to be judgemental or something along those lines but just ditch porn altogether.
According to Andrew Huberman (neurobiologist at Stanford medical school), porn is harmful because you wire your brain to feel pleasure from a 3rd person's view from watching it instead of having sex which is a 1st person-view activity, thus you wire your brain to be a voyeur and you'll no longer feel pleasure from sexual intercourse.
In your case, OP, porn has caused you confusion because as you said, vanilla stuff doesn't arouse you anymore and you need something more "exciting". Here's why:
Every human and animal has a chemical called dopamine. Dopamine is a feel-good neurotransmitter and it is responsible for movement, memory, pleasure/joy, learning, mood, concentration, motivation, etc.
Every time we engage in a high-dopaminergic activity, much like drugs i.e. cocaine, or meth, our dopamine levels adjust to this stimulus (now this is quite correct but I am trying to keep it as simple as possible).
When we take too much dopamine due to homeostasis (a mechanism for keeping chemical balance), then our dopamine go below baseline because the stimulus was supernatural.
Porn is exactly the same thing as sniffing cocaine because much like cocaine, it increases dopamine above baseline by about 250% and it crashes immediately after finishing watching it you feel depressed as a consequence and you lack energy.
So to get the same "high" and compensate for your depressed feeling, you need more and more of that stimulus (in your case porn) and this means you're addicted to it OP and you have to do something about it ASAP, or else you will fry your dopamine receptors and you will no longer feel joy in life!
TLDR; OP you ****ed up your brain chemistry, specifically dopamine (Read the entire thing please) and this causes an indirect confusion with your sexuality because of how supernatural stimulus porn is.
According to Andrew Huberman (neurobiologist at Stanford medical school), porn is harmful because you wire your brain to feel pleasure from a 3rd person's view from watching it instead of having sex which is a 1st person-view activity, thus you wire your brain to be a voyeur and you'll no longer feel pleasure from sexual intercourse.
In your case, OP, porn has caused you confusion because as you said, vanilla stuff doesn't arouse you anymore and you need something more "exciting". Here's why:
Every human and animal has a chemical called dopamine. Dopamine is a feel-good neurotransmitter and it is responsible for movement, memory, pleasure/joy, learning, mood, concentration, motivation, etc.
Every time we engage in a high-dopaminergic activity, much like drugs i.e. cocaine, or meth, our dopamine levels adjust to this stimulus (now this is quite correct but I am trying to keep it as simple as possible).
When we take too much dopamine due to homeostasis (a mechanism for keeping chemical balance), then our dopamine go below baseline because the stimulus was supernatural.
Porn is exactly the same thing as sniffing cocaine because much like cocaine, it increases dopamine above baseline by about 250% and it crashes immediately after finishing watching it you feel depressed as a consequence and you lack energy.
So to get the same "high" and compensate for your depressed feeling, you need more and more of that stimulus (in your case porn) and this means you're addicted to it OP and you have to do something about it ASAP, or else you will fry your dopamine receptors and you will no longer feel joy in life!
TLDR; OP you ****ed up your brain chemistry, specifically dopamine (Read the entire thing please) and this causes an indirect confusion with your sexuality because of how supernatural stimulus porn is.
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly I’m exactly the same as you!!
I watch lesbian porn purely because it focuses on the woman’s pleasure - unlike straight porn which is literally just backshots and violence for the man’s pleasure.
I never imagine a girl when I watch lesbian porn. I imagine a guy instead. I feel like if there was porn that primarily focuses on the woman’s pleasure by a man, I would TOTALLY watch that instead, but such things barely exist lol
I know im straight, couldn’t imagine myself being with someone other than a man.
I don’t think I’d ever have sex with a woman, I’m 99% sure
I watch lesbian porn purely because it focuses on the woman’s pleasure - unlike straight porn which is literally just backshots and violence for the man’s pleasure.
I never imagine a girl when I watch lesbian porn. I imagine a guy instead. I feel like if there was porn that primarily focuses on the woman’s pleasure by a man, I would TOTALLY watch that instead, but such things barely exist lol
I know im straight, couldn’t imagine myself being with someone other than a man.
I don’t think I’d ever have sex with a woman, I’m 99% sure
Dont lie you’re gay my child and every girl is lesbian it is proved recently
Original post by Anonymous
I do think that I’m straight but I think everyone around me, especially bi girls are making me think I may be bi curious? I occasionally watch lesbian porn. I do think women are beautiful but I sometimes watch it bc it is very arousing for me to see a woman being pleased as she needs to be pleased. A lot of straight porn is very much focused on the guys pleasure and violence. However, I have found some very good videos of homemade straight porn that I’ve really liked.. my question is am I in denial if I sometimes watch lesbian porn?
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
I’ve never really wanted to sleep with or be with women. There was one time when I was 17 when I felt pressured to sext a woman.. which I did and although at the time it seemed intriguing as something ‘naughty and different to my sexuality ’ I knew that it wasn’t and isn’t for me.
I can’t imagine being anything but straight bc I really don’t want to be with a girl in any capacity and actually being bisexual does not feel like it is me. There is nothing wrong with being bi, but I see so many ppl labelling girls that like men as bi for watching lesbian porn… so idk.
This used to bother me a lot but now I’m older it doesn’t worry me as much…
I know that I want to be with a man as a boyfriend or husband… I just hate all of this labelling me when I feel as though I’m straight..
thanks guys
Want a free massage?
Related discussions
- I watch lesbian porn but I’m straight
- I'm not gay but sometimes I get off to gay porn?
- I’m straight but only watch lesbian porn
- do lesbian girls value height as much as straight girls do?
- why do i watch gay male porn even though im a lesbian women??????????????????
- feel absolutely overwhelmed speaking to girls
- Do you think she is lesbian?
- Webcam addiction
- Have a gf but not sure if I’m gay or not
- Struggle with my sexual orientation
- Intrusive thoughts.
- Any other straight women who experimented with same sex
- Can a camp man be straight?
- LGBT+ Chat XIII
- I have a BF... but I'm starting to fancy women?
- struggling with my sexuality as i grow up
- Lesbian
- Confused about my looks
- LGBTQ+ Q and A Thread
- Watched straight and gay porn
